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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it. I did hate it, but it didn't re... (266 words)

He stood me up 3 times why is he coming back to me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he coming back to me now? should I just ignore him? There's this guy that I use to like.. He'd stare at me all the time. We were getting to know each other and he said he wanted to take things slow. We use to talk everyday but he stopped ringing and texting. ... (187 words)

I'm in a panic over his impotence. What would the average person do? Stay or go if their man is impotent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you stay with your husband, if he can't get an erection when you try to have sex, and he has no idea why? It started suddenly after a a huge argument, when he said, "I never loved you, I just stayed with you". Then 2 weeks after this, his erection was gone for ever....... (101 words)

Why am I the bad guy for leaving? She lies and cshe heated on me 5 times.How do I get her to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her to have affairs by saying I ne... (138 words)

I can't simply tell her I lied, can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, really need some help here. My and my girlfriend just got into an argument about trusting each other (I told her I didn't trust her fully because I have trust issue, I told her I had been cheated on- which wasn't true) and I think we are pretty much over, I really ... (99 words)

The ex? or my current b/f who's going over seas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I seem to have gotten myself into a bit of love trouble. I was dating someone long distance when I met, well, someone else. My boyfriend and I hadn't been getting along - he said he loved me, but he would be controlling and jealous and say things to hurt my feelings (such a... (218 words)

I left him because he was depressed and unfaithful. Now he wants me back...what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently brokeup with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. Actually this is our second breakup because last year I ended things when it felt like he really just didn't want to be with me anymore. But to my surprise he said he felt the exact opposite and begged for me to come back and ... (725 words)

The meaning behind hugs that men give

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! I am curious of the mening of the type of hugs men give. I have been seeing a doctor for the past two years for a surgery and post ops afterwards. There has been a bit of flirting both ways. We are both married with kids. At the end of my last appointment, we were in the ... (108 words)

Do I stay a friend to him or do I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age - I dont know if I should stay freinds with my ex stressing me out some he is a demanding type and that is why I asked him to move out we have not been broke up long someone mentioned compromise has to be in a realtionship and to me he aint about that. Now he can get mad abou... (245 words)

Once upon a time he really loved me and wanted to be with me forever

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need some help. I'm really confused. We broke up on October 30th, and a week after that we started talking again, and tried to work it out, but then things just crashed and suddenly he was all bitter, and told me we weren't friends anymore. So we stopped talking,... (343 words)

I don't think I love my partner anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused.... I am 23 so is my partner we got together when we were 15 had children at 19 and 21, I feel like we are at the end of our relationship I have no one I feel I can truely talk to, I think I've just grown and changed since the 15 year old girl I was, I've nev... (194 words)

How soon is too soon for the "L" word?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a really great girl about 6 weeks ago. We get along great and we have been spending a lot of time together. She lives about 30 miles away from me and yet we still spend about 4 days per week together - Friday one of us goes to visit the other and stays through Monday. ... (298 words)

Is this just mild, controlling behavior or something else?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My bf of 2 years is really a sweet guy but he has this very mild, controlling behavior...For instance, if I ask him if we can get something to eat he will say "no, we just ate" or "no, have patience." At a restaurant, he controls what I eat and doesn't allow me to order certain ... (205 words)

I prefer masturbation to girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is that normal? I've been on SSRIs for about a year and stopped a few weeks ago as i'd had enougn of feeling like a zombie and not being able to sleep at night and just being tired all the time and understanding nothing in my lectures. I'm 20 and in my 2nd year of uni. My... (259 words)

Why do I feel so bad about leaving him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi it's my first time posting here! i just wanted to ask is why am i feeling so bad for leaving my boyfriend? we were going out for almost 2 years and i endured his lies secret conversation with girls, secret outings with his immature friends, insults and fair share of sc... (389 words)

How do I prove to her that I've changed and want her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, 3 weeks ago I broke up with the most beautiful, perfect girl a boy like me could ever hope to meet. We had been going out for a year and a half and in the last few months I completely lost track of how much she meant to me and what was important, I started ignoring ... (160 words)

Should I give the guy from my past another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - it's been three months since i split with my ex bf of 1yr 3months ( he was cheating on me). since then i've been asked out by 4 guys who really want long term relationship with me but i said no.. however recenetly a guy from my past came back.. we was together for 6mo... (143 words)

Boyfriend wants to have sex but I know he'll tell everyone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was faced with 2 problems this past weekend..first..my boyfriend told me that his mom doesn't like me...she use to but I don't talk to her in public..so she thinks I'm being like a snob or something which is absolutely not the case...I have freaking family issues that are ... (143 words)

My boyfriend has trouble staying hard, how do I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf, which I have been with 4 months now, has trouble staying hard when we have sex. Most times he will get hard for a few seconds but at that point I am not wet yet so I have to get lube and by the time I lubed him up it just goes away. We tried twice last time and both ... (172 words)

Boyfriend lies to me about contact with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year. He claims that his ex-lover is just a friend. Although he has only just admitted that they used to sleep together. Even though he had told me that they had never been intimate like that, i had always had a gut instinct. ... (341 words)

Why do I become nauseous after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some ideas as to what might be going on. Lately, it seems anytime I have sex with my husband or even masturbate I get very nauseous right after. I never used to feel like that before and I don't really understand why it's happening now. I know I'm not pregnant because I ... (69 words)

I've realized I'm gay -- how to tell my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who ive been with for half a year now but i got with him unsure about my sexuality and now i know, i'm 100% gay. I need to tell him but i'm too afraid, plus we live together with 6 other people as i'm in uni. so it's going to be really awkward and i'm sure ... (77 words)

How do I make it clear that I'm there for her as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - last year at college i met this girl who i have become friends with we both left college to do something different and we hadn't spoken for a while then we caught up abit through texting and then a few brief times on facebook but the other day she posted a status saying she ... (299 words)

How to deal with my messy flatmates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I was wondering if you could advise me how to deal with this situation. Basically, I am in first year of university, living in halls in a flat with 5 other girls. We share a kitchen/ living area. I get on with them alright, but they arn't the kind of girls i'... (403 words)

Should I just accept that its over should I leave everything alone? Will she ever come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is vincent Ive been going with this girl for 3 years since our junior year in high school and we had some problems off and on 6 months after we started dating we broke up and she had sex with her ex she came back to me apologizing saying it was such a stupid mistake ... (351 words)

I don't feel the spark for my boyfriend whom I am in a long distance relationship with, and I have cheated on him three times now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year now. its a long distance relationship. Of late my boyfriend does call me as usual and all but lately I feel like he's kinda changed he is too busy for me, he doesn't give me attention, in short I don't fe... (160 words)

Totally and Utterly Love him. But, how do I get over someone I love if it wont work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there just a quick question which i hope you all can help me with. I am totally and utterly in love with this guy, he may or may not like me but i know deep down it would never work as we just dont match. so my question is how do i get over someone i love if it wont work? ... (69 words)

I don't know if this guy is being a kind friend or likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend a while back. I don't he is capable of being faithful to anyone. When we were breaking up I talked to a couple of mutual friends (then a couple) to try to understand what was happening. Anyway since then this couple have also broken up. Now the ... (265 words)

Does his comment actually mean anything because of ellipses in it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I invited an old flame out for a coffee next time he was up near where I lived. I didn't get a response until he accidentially posted a comment on my status page on facebook which was meant for someone else. I private messaged him the next day to say that I thought it had ... (193 words)

We were never anything to each other. Will this ever pass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't forget him...and we were no one to one another. We were really nothing to one another. i was a really awkward, inexperienced senior in college and he was a party boy. Opposites attracted, he freaked out, defended his image by bringing mines down, and his last stateme... (213 words)

Boyfriend may be cheating on me. What is the best way to confront him and how do I deal when he's denying it or pretending that I made it all up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently discovered that my boyfriend may be caring a relationship with another girl long distance. He is texting a girl in another state and from the looks of the texts, they have some sort of relationship. They call each other baby and tell each other "I love you" and he ... (324 words)

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me two months ago and he's already seeing someone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex dumped me barely two months ago. I am still in love with him, but have just found out that he is going to ask another girl out, and that he has found someone else. It felt like my heart just got broken again. How do I move past this? ... (51 words)

Should I be worried that she might be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18, in first year university. My girlfriend is almost 17, in her last year of highschool. We've been dating since August and had sex twice. The first time, which was the FIRST time for both of us, we used a condom, and it seemed like it was okay. Last week, we did not... (192 words)

Should I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i break up witih him? We met on the internet. He tried to have sex with me on the first date. we've been together for 1 and 1/2 yrs 1) He cheated on me. a) with a girl he met on the bus, he told me its because he thinks i am unfaithful. i broke up with him. he s... (543 words)

My former friend with benefits is knocking at my door!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody my fwb and I have just recently broke it off we agreed not to see anyone alse I was fine with that as I never wanted anyoone else and so was he. now all of a sudden he has broke it off with me and accused me of seeing someone else when I wasn't now he won't sp... (102 words)

We had sex for the first time without a condom. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me had sex (first time for both) without using a condom. She takes pregnancy pills, and she said it was ok, but i am still worried. Should I be worried? Shes also been complaining of feeling dizzy. but that could be anything,, i don't really know w... (58 words)

Should I continue to wait and see, or contact him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age - Not sure what I should do if I very much would like to get back together with my ex-fiance. My ex broke it off with me a little over a yr. ago. When he ended it his only reason at the time was that he was not happy. Yes, we did have our problems but, nothing in my opinion that ... (696 words)

Please help me summon the courage to leave her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Experts, Ive finaly hit rock bottom in what is supposed to be called a relationship and i require some support to find the courage to leave, after 4 hard years with my soon to be ex partner i cant take anymore of her crap, november 2010 our daughter sadly passed aw... (363 words)

What is my friend's problem? She seems to behave like she's competing with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. my best friend thinks she's all that. she is 27 and works at a pharmacy with no real certificate while im 24 and a teacher at a high school. so she earns like a third of my salary and does not have a place of her own. she comes to my place every weekend but my problem is ... (104 words)

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me, but I'm having a hard time getting over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex bf and I have been broken up for about a month now. We were together for three years and I broke up with him because he cheated on me one night he was out at a party. I have not spoken to him since we broke up. I made it clear to him that we were done and I wanted nothing ... (275 words)

My abusive husband threatens to label me a bad mother if I leave him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Our daughter is four. the other night I was so ashamed when my little girl tried to stop my husband hitting me. She physically tried to push him away. He is always kind to her and he waits until she is asleep before he starts to be nastier to me. I earn more than him. I always... (530 words)

My ex has been in touch but hasn't even hinted about another date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently I got back with my ex after breaking up for 2 months(he brought that up). Everything looks ok. But every time it's me who texted him(partly because he wants me to express my feelings more and that's part of the reason why we broke up last time). He would reply and ... (135 words)

I'm the opposite of his type, but should I still go for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been through alot in my life when it comes to men. I've just gotten over a tough 7 year relationship and spent the yr after breaking up being overly promiscuous and making alot of mistakes. I've mended my ways now and am ready to settle down again. The thing is I have ... (217 words)

How can I make this guy get out of my personal space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in Gr.11 and I met a guy who was a year younger than me. I discovered that he doesn't have many friends because people say he's "creepy" and socially awkward. Now, I'm not the type of person to just let these kinds of things go, so I befriended him. He's actually really ... (282 words)

Does it ever work out when the love interest has an overprotective, platonic friend of the opposite sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in this situation more times than I would have liked. I like a shy guy who is controlled by his overprotective friend who is a girl. She swears that there is no attraction between them and he will always be like her little brother, but then why is she so skeptical ... (132 words)

Family keep pushing us together. Yet I suspect he's Gay. Why does he say he'll ask me out when I'm "Free"? I am single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So there's this guy right. He's such a great guy, we met actually a year ago yesterday, but I've only seen him a couple of times.. I get really nervous around him.. Why I don't know but I do.. His mom and my sister are friends. Since the first time the lady met me she has told... (900 words)

Will I be single forever? Or are some men ok with a girl being good looking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is a question for the men. All my friends amd family tell me how good looking I am, but I don't think I am. Men always seem to have a problem with my supposed good looks. Every man I've been out with has broken it off with me. What is it that makes them do that? Is it ... (102 words)

I thought we were dating but he's still remaining active on his online dating account!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Three weeks ago, I started dating a guy through on-line dating . I think we are a really good match for each other. He is exactly what I am looking for in a guy and seems really keen on me. He treats me really well and we have the same values, and a lot in common. He has ... (294 words)

Worried about my underage son's out-of-control behavior and overly active sexual activities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

27 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im very worried about my son mason hes 15, i had him when i was about 16 and i dont want him to have a baby so young i want him to live his life first!!! he brings his girlfriend over to our house all the time shes beautiful and shes got an amazing personality but all they do ... (162 words)