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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I say I want more from him without scaring him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. For the past six months I have been sleeping with my ex teacher. Nothing happened while we were in school, im 20 years old and so its all perfectly legal. There is a big age gap but that doesnt bother me. We hadnt seen each other for years and got ch... (357 words)

Are there engagement rings for men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone seen as its a leap year next year I am planning on proposing to my bf of 2 years it will also be his birthday a few days later I'm just wondering if there are engagement rings for men. thanks all ... (44 words)

My sister was exposed to TB. She lives with us, should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister went to the doctor the other day for some tests and she was told that she has been exposed to TB,she is staying with me and my three young boys are there,should i be worried,am confused please help. ... (44 words)

Distance made me feel safe -- what about this online girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had met this girl online during September, she is about 8 or 11 hours drive from me so i never met her in person. At first we didn't talk much of relationship related topic. I was really careful with her because i really like her in the pictures she posted, she was cute. We ... (224 words)

9 months of dating and she finds other attractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my gf for about 9 months now and she finds many other people attractive, should I be worried? Is that normal?... (24 words)

If I send him a gift would that make me look desperate or obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, is it ok to send a gift (nothing expensive) to someone I have not met in person yet? -We have been writing emails to each other for about a month, and lately he has not written much, but he sent me an email a week ago saying that he was very sorry about do not being able ... (134 words)

Does his email sound genuine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online and I really like him. -I am aware from the very beginning that he is trying to finish his PhD dissertation, and I know it can get very stressful. He used to write me about twice every week, but lately he just does it once every week. -Last time it was ... (255 words)

I'm 13, he's 17 we met online, is it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so I know i'm still young and all but yes so here I go. okay so a little while ago my friend showed me this website were I could meet new people and things like that, so one day I decided I would go and try it out ,so I did. I didnt expect to meet anyone there, but I di... (200 words)

Whats the meaning of a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What's the meaning of a break, time, space,? Does that mean its over? my girl asked me for time to find herself and see if she can let go of the past and reallu for give me for cheating and lying, but yet we live together and she still wants me in her life after she moves out. ... (58 words)

My husband's mother wants to move in with us and I want a life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my husbands mothers husband just passed. she is 55 and he was 84, with money. they were married 4 years. so now she wants to move in with us. no one asked me how i felt. i love her with all my heart, but i didnt sign up for this. i know it sounds mean. at first i was told a ... (121 words)

How do I wear this sexy nurse's uniform for my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I just bought a really sexy nurses costume and I had to keep reminding myself that I have the confidence to even buy it. My question is, How can wear it for my husband,and not look like a total idiot?... (42 words)

Tons of drama but I love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Lately me and my gf of 7 years have been arguing A LOT...we see each other on weekends and lately every weekend has had some sort of argument. Yesterday we didnt make it 30min before we started arguing. We broke up 3 years ago and she started talking to another dude for about 3 ... (885 words)

He doesn't want someone who's needy, but someone who needs him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'm posting this on behalf of my friend... She has been dating a guy for six monts and some issues have surfaced. His last ex of 8 years was very timid when they met and really looked up to him. She relied on him for nearly everything as she had never lived on her own b... (395 words)

I met someone online but everyone is always concerned for my safety!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think it's terrible how a minority of wicked people can forever tarnish something which could be used for the good. I met the love of my life (and I'm not using those words lightly) online in August 2010. It wasn't a dating site, just one for penpals, so we never began with ... (238 words)

He chose to spend our 1 year 10 month anniversary with his college friends!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I know this sounds a bit stupid but yesterday was our year and ten months anniversarie but he kept telling me last week that he was gonna surprise me wit breaking Dawn tickets and so I was just thinking it comes out Friday it's our day Friday maybe hel do that then he said ... (192 words)

Can you really just be friends with your Ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I said when it ended that we wanted to remain friends. For the most part, we are. We keep in touch, and see each other now and then. My problem is, every now and then, we have these "moments" together. We end up in a place where I see it as more than just friends. It ... (136 words)

My boyfriend can't stop masturbating to porn!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So a while ago, my boyfriend confessed to watching porn and said he would stop. He thinks it's a bad thing. A teeny bit recently, i told him how i felt about it and he said "sorry for doing that" and promised he'd stop again. Then MORE recently I asked him if h... (207 words)

I want to lose weight, but I can't seem to stop eating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been saying for months now that I’m going to eat healthy and lose weight but there’s always something there to stop me. I find that when I’m stressed I pig out and when I’m due on my period I just want to eat loads of chocolate and cake. I’ve tried many different diets and ... (307 words)

I'm falling in love with another man and I have a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all... I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years now, we have 2 kids together, things are usually pretty good with us, a few things that bother me are his mood swings one minute hes happy the next hes very miserable. through these nine years of being together he has ... (789 words)

He's had 6 gfs before me and I need to know the details. Should I ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is the first proper bf I have had and the person I lost my virginity too. However, before me, he had a bout 6 proper gfs and has had sex with them all. This makes me feel a bit uncomfy, but I realise you can't usually get boys without history. However, I feel like I want ... (123 words)

Will he choose me over his girlfriend of 9 years?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanted to ask is there any chances that the person i love will chose me over his girlfriend for nine years? Can you give me advice of what to do? i really love this guy. Will i let go of him? or fight for this guy? he said he love both of us. ... (55 words)

His exes call him all the time, when I try to talk to him about it he calls me controlling.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age - I am 45 and recently married for the second time. My husband is a very friendly person but seems unable to draw the line at what is friendly and what is unacceptable behaviour. He has a lot of female friends and ex girlfriends and even though we are now married they still ring ... (293 words)

Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being careful too cuz i don't want my ... (90 words)

Doesn't a kiss mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - we are very good friends.we talk a lot. we are on phone. he knows i like him a lot.he never gave any reaction on that. he spends time with me more than any girl. we were just sitting one day when he held my hand.he held it tight as if not to let it go.after some time somebody ... (167 words)

He doesn't take care of me when I'm sick

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

19 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Something is bothering me a bit. I am currently very sick, and yesterday I was much worse. I was at my boyfriend's house when suddenly my symptoms got really bad. I begged him to drive to the winn dixie right next to his house to get me some robitussin or lemon tea or something ... (182 words)

How do I ride him successfully?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. my man wants us to try different positions and its exciting but my problem is how to be on top. we've tried it but l just can't do it, l feel so heavy like my body wont move up or down and its so bad, once in he'll slide out coz l cannot control my movements. im... (83 words)

How can I make him forget about her and fall in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy a few weeks ago he told me he likes me but there is something wrong. he has broken up with this girl, its been like one year and they where together for 6 year. He hasn't forgotten her. How can i make him forget about her and fall in love with me? ... (56 words)

Should I just take the plunge and call her up one day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, my story is somewhat long, so please bear with it and many thanks in advance. Firstly, I am 21 years old male and I have been attracted to a girl I work with (infrequently anyway) who is 22. I would say that, from the moment I first laid eyes on her, I was ... (314 words)

I just don't want to be treated differently because of my gender

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

- hey all those who are there... im having a little issue with my partner at the moment... all my life i've been treated differently because i'm female and it really bugs me, i don't understand why all women are put under the same category like being defenseless and unabl... (248 words)

I dont' want to waste my time with the wrong man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a single mum of 2 beautiful children under 5 and last September I met a wonderful man online. The relationship has been great, he's amazing with my children and I love him with all my heart...but I can't shake this feeling something isn't right :-( background is I come... (704 words)

My brother threw our long lost homeless father out. Did he do the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i'm conflicted. You see my father left me and my mother and my older brother when we were kids. Since then we've struggled to make ends meet. But now my older brother is successful. he's an architect now. and we're living comfortably. really comfortably. suddenly my father ... (104 words)

She has a boyfriend but I don't want to lose her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had fallen in love with a girl.i love her so much but when i proposed her i came to knw he had a bf whom she loved very much my heart got breaked after listening it bt frnds i dnt want to lose her.wat should i do plz help... (50 words)

Braces! rubberbands! I feel so ugly. All my photos next year will be ruined. And I'm a dancer. What can I do to get through this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 years old, and in my 3rd year of high school. I recently just got braces on, not to straighten my teeth (they were already straight), but, to fix my bite. I have to wear rubberbands and all of that. I can't stand to even look at myself anymore. I hate opening my mout... (153 words)

Hurtful comments are starting to hurt me. I don't call it bullying. How do I deal with this meanness at school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with the way I'm treated at school. No I'm not being bullied, but I'm treated many different ways. See I'm a really happy person at school, I laugh and smile at school every single day. Because of this some people call me stupid and treat me like I'm reta... (286 words)

Have I had my chance already? I still love my late husband. Or should I search for a husband so my child will have a father figure in her life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just start dating again after 3 years after my husband's death. He was always be in my heart but i think my daughter keep asking my for a daddy i try to explain to her that daddy will always be with us, and he's watching over us. I just need your help with this question... (139 words)

I have fallen for my best friends wife, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a guy in his late 20's and I have fallen for my best friends wife. The thing is that my friend has done some things that I could never fogive him for. He has raped her while she was asleep and he lost his job because of porn addiction. He hasn't put his family first and... (196 words)

I don't think I'm worthy of this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been very ill lately, having seizures and panic attacks, due to a hereditary nerve problem. I recently met a girl who is 14 and really took to me. She called everyday to see if I was okay, and she has just been an angel to me. I am 18 and a freshman in college. She is 14 ... (197 words)

How long do you wait to have your first kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm in my first real relationship and have been for about 2 months now. I was kind of curious about how long you would wait to have your first kiss with this person (and this would be my first kiss ever). We hug, cuddle, hold hands, give each other back rubs, poke ... (79 words)

I would love to have a boyfriend but have never been asked out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It makes me sad because all of my friends have had their first boyfriends, first kiss, their first time having sex and even a couple have kids but that's not something to brag about. I have yet to experience any of these things and it gets me down. I would love to have a bf but ... (106 words)

How do I stop feeling like I never had an adult that cared about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad has always been extremely critical of me, and my mother was always very withdrawn; I don't ever remember her even saying "I love you" to me. I have never felt close parental support or guidance. Instead I feel as though I have had to raise myself alone. Starting 7 yea... (515 words)

Boyfriend may have gotten my cousin pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend are on again off again in a 2 year relationships. we have both screwed up hooked up with each others fiends and worked passed it. recently we broke up and i just got told my cousin is pregnant and there is a 50/50 chance my boyfriend is the dad i dont know what to ... (70 words)

My ex wants back a gift he gave me when we were together. Should I give it back/

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, just a quick question. My friends and I are split on the subject, so need a few opinions off you fabulous lot. My ex boyfriend text me saying he hated me. No problem for me. I didn't fly off the handle, may have ranted a bit to close friends, but only s... (479 words)

Broken hearted - Do you think he will change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im so sad. i just discovered my boyfriend is back emailing this girl i asked him not to. U see shes linked to one of his foreign friends and he met her at an event abroad. i wasnt with him and when he came home he began emailing her. i discovered afew months later and told him ... (308 words)

How can a relationship possibly be happy when it seems like the other doesn't want to be in it anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have been together almost two years. For the most part, everything is good, but lately things have been starting to fall apart. Any time he gets angry, he storms off, goes home, calls the next day and apologizes, but never actually ever talks about the issue. ... (164 words)

I've done it again, put my life on hold for another man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

19 November 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I've done it again, put my life on hold for another man What's it all about, this dating stuff? I don't call him ever, new rule for me, he calls once a week to hook up. It's all very very good stuff, but now I find myself lost in the newness, waiting for that damned call... (225 words)

8 months later and things have died down between boyfriend and I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and lately for about a month now, things have died down a bit. sometimes i wont hear from him all day liketoday for example its 6:30pm and we havent talked all day. if i question him he will say 'oh u already know i was at ... (130 words)

How do I let this guy know that I AM interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so there is this guy and we both like eachother. He always comes to see me but im always afraid to approach him because im shy. He texts me alot but lately after 30 min I say I have to go and do my home work and he seems upset but understands. Now I think he thinks I dont ... (73 words)

I think he might really like me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So today D has really given me second thoughts. I think he REALLY might like me. He called after me today because he wanted to walk to class with me, we have the same class that hour, when he usually walks the entire opposite way, our school is built in a circle. He wanted to ... (220 words)

Mixed signals - some signs show he cares and others show he's not bothered?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. I'm 19 and I'm "getting to know" this guy, he's 23. Now, we're not officially seeing each other, we're just seeing how it goes - we're both allowed to date other people (but I'm not the type to do so, as I like to stick to one guy at a time, however he isn't t... (548 words)

How can I make him take notice of me like he used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna know how can I stop being so needy and flip the script to show him I can be good on my own. I wanna make him Chase me and work for me like he did when we first met... Me and and him been off and on for a year now, and I can't help it that I care about him so much. He ... (123 words)

I have LTR with my partner, but another man stole my heart. What am to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Advice needed, I need to resolve my emotional mess and i don't know anymore how to do it.At the moment i find this way better then asking my friends for advise, cause the things went to far. I am not control freak but i like to have things in control. My partner and me a... (870 words)

I want to ask her to marry me - but not for 2 years. Is this acceptalbe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've been into this relationship for over two years now and am planing to engage her with a ring and marry her like next 2years.i realy love her and am ready to settle down with her.But am not yet ready to get married now until next 2years,but i realy want to give her the ... (69 words)

How can I get him to forgive me for breaking 2 dates???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have an issue I need some help with. I've been friends with a guy for a while, recently our relationship has grown much closer and deeper but we haven't officially defined things. We talk about everything, several times a day. We had a terrible misunderstanding ... (201 words)

I'm afraid to introduce my b/f to my family because of his past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to introduce my boyfriend to my family as we've been dating for four months now. But he doesn't have a great past. He got into trouble with the law a few months back. It really wasn't his fault ( It really wasn't he was sold robbed goods ) I,ve never mentioned it to my ... (93 words)