A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for several years. He is not working and he is a mama's boy even though we live together. He thinks im a liar even when i am telling the truth. It hurts and as a result i get mad and say a lot of awful things that i later regret. I want to stop feeling and get so angry. I want to get married and have kids and he is no where near ready for that. I feel like im wasting my time waiting for him topop the question. Im confused! Should i leave him? Why do i get so angry? I have never done anything for him not to trust me. All his reasonings are based on assumptions and are not true. People say i am a good woman and i believe it. Why cant he see it? Im tired of all of this. HELP!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 if you want to get married and have kids you need to ask him. when he says NO you need to leave him.
if he wanted to be married and have kids you would be married and making babies..
how will he support you and the family if he's not working?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): Unless you have given him a reason not to trust you,I question his reasons for not trusting you. People who dont trust are often comparing everyone else to their own low morals. This isnt going to work with what you are saying.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Trust is the basis of any good relationship, if he cant trust you if he doesnt believe you then you guys will always have problems because he is insecure!
You should not have to explain yourself to the point where you get angry with someone. Your getting angry because its frustrating when someone you love and is honest with does not trust you.
If you want a chance of a fulfilling life move on.
Find someone who trusts you, who wants the same goals and dreams as you.
Dont waste your time on a man who does not want to change!
I hope this helps!
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