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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She is more like my sister so I don't know why the sudden coldness and indifference to my wedding plans! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a problem with my friend that i dont no how to address. She is more like my sister and we have been inseperable since young children so it is obvious then that when i started planning my wedding i asked her to be my maid of honour. She told me she would be ... (278 words)

How do I get my parents to let me spend Thanksgiving with my boyfriend? And allow me to spend the night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a silly question, but I need help. My boyfriend of a year has invited me to spend Thanksgiving with his family, and of course I want to go. The problem is, my parents are kind of strict (I live at home) and I can't see them agreeing to this. We would leave ... (194 words)

How do I know if he's truly serious with his new girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would see this guy on and off very randomly for the past year or so. I recently see through Facebook that he's seeing someone. She's ten years younger and from the looks of her pictures she seems very immature. She dresses very sleazy and every pic is of her going out and ... (258 words)

Are there other T shirt addicts out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear All, My boyfriend is addicted to buying T Shirts. Sometimes he will spend approx £60 on T shirts, normally white, and there is no space in the wardrobe. Then he is reluctant to get rid of his other T shirts. Is there other T shirt addicts out there. Pip ... (59 words)

I want HIM to say that we're together, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, =) well, I have started at a new college, and I've been there for a good month or so I think (I'm a girl by the way). I had not too recently broken up with a guy..VERY badly I must say, probably the most horrific 'romantic' experience of my life =P And I had semi-sworn to ... (611 words)

Two kids with a rebound girl I never loved. What advice would you give me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - ok were to start me and my parnter have been together for 5 years on and off. since the birth of my daughther shes been jealous because i love her more than my patner. but the true matter is i didnt love my partner that much to start of with she was a re-bound girl i just met ... (327 words)

How do I tell my lesbian girlfriend to take it easy on me during sex without telling her I was a virgin before her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend is on a quest to sexually open me up. She doesn't like to use lube although she can be real rough during sex. I really really love her and she says she loves me....we've been together two years n being intimate for a yr and a half. We don't sex regularly...just every ... (252 words)

How do I get my girlfriend and her mom to stop giving money to her brother? I think he's cheating on his wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - how can i stop this? hi my girlfriend and her mum keep giving money to there brother / son. he's got a good job makes 1800 a month driving for the same company as me. but he keeps asking for money and saying " dont tell my wife " i think hes having an affair on is wife ... (261 words)

Should I even try to talk to this guy about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi people, I have been in a very weird, complicated relationship for two years - I am not even sure it can be called a relationship . I loved the guy and I still do. I respected him and still do. I also think of him as a very good, kind hearted person. But in all this... (449 words)

What do you do when the distance between you starts to grow bigger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 14 years and together 5 years before that. Things haven't been perfect and we have been working on things for quite some thime now. We see a counselor once a week and he sees someone on his own. I have and appointment coming up to see ... (197 words)

Am I wasting my time thinking this man might want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age - I got to know a man who worked in the same place as me but different departments 13yrs ago. He began to start to talk to me a lot and I saw him when out at the pub with my friends and he was with his friends but he used to flirt a lot with me and come up and chatted away very ... (1055 words)

Boyfriend has orgasm when soft and when he urinates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for several months now, i know i turn him on because he cant keep his hands off me, well lately he has started something with me and it was really surprising to me. he cant keep a hard on for very long and he cums (like a girl) when his ... (107 words)

Doubtful if I did the right thing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, When I was younger ( 4-5 years ago ) I started a relationship with a girl from my class. It went fine and was your run of the mill high school relationship. We used to chat for hours over the internet and phone. We would hold hands and talk in school. After 3 years, t... (219 words)

He said that if I don't find a way to enjoy giving him head that our marriage will be over!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for almost four years. When we had been dating for a month I told him that I hated giving head. We have been married for a little over a year now and he is telling me that if I don't find a way to enjoy giving him head that our marriage will be over! ... (97 words)

Is it okay to set a mood for my first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm planning to lose my virginity to my boyfriend in the not-too-distant future, but while I'm excited about the prospect I know I'm going to be pretty nervous too! I'd like to create an atmosphere in the bedroom (nothing too extravagent - maybe some tealights and a few ... (189 words)

If a woman breaks up with a guy and loses all feelings for him, then has several relatively intense new relationships, can she ever get the old feelings back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I first met my fiance about 9 years ago (she was 25, and fairly recently divorced). At the time, she was absolutely crazy about me, but I broke it off after a couple years. She was very hurt by this, and she wanted to get back with me for a couple years. We got back togethe... (268 words)

Does this dream represent nostalgia for my childhood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a dream that's too bizarre to discuss with anyone I know, and I hope that someone in this audience could interpret. I hate to think of what the dream implies, but I think that the true meaning of the dream is deeper than the obvious implication. I dreamed I was... (329 words)

Wife cheated on me while we were engaged!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I just found out from one of my wife's girlfriends that she cheated on me while we were engaged. We just got married 1 1/2 years ago. While we were engaged, I applied for and got a great job, I had to travel a few times in the first 2 months for trai... (432 words)

If she doesn't like me in that way, why did she care about my date so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Thoroughly confused here! So essentially, there's a girl who I've liked on an off for a while. On sunday night, we were both at the same party and we started talking. I'd recently (last Friday) been on a date with another girl because I thought I had absolutely n... (405 words)

Any advice on studying or working away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm on Jobseeker's Allowance, but i am interested in either studying or working away somewhere. I live in a very small town, and have tried applying for lots of jobs close to where i live, with no luck, which is why i am looking at going away. Is this possible, even though i am ... (100 words)

Is it possible to have a bruise on that part of your body without it leaving a mark?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a question about a mysterious bruise incident. Fact: She told me had a bruise and it hurt like heck and she got it by bumping into the sharp corner of her dresser in the dark, on her chest. Fact: The next day she showed me where the bruise was, upper chest right be... (147 words)

He's been extremely annoying with his continual requests for anal sex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love very much. BUT (isn't there always a but?) he keeps pressuring me to have anal sex with him. I'm happy to do it once a week or so, but every day is too much and it hurts. Also, he doesn't like using lube (although someti... (331 words)

Is there any way to make these dreams about my ex stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for a year and a half and I'm having recurring dreams about my ex (who happens to be my first love) for the last few months. We were together for 3.5 years and it officially ended about two days before my current guy and I started dating. ... (500 words)

I can't let go of my unrequited love and it is killing me..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in love with a close female friend for four years. I have tried to date other women but there has never been a spark and they pale in comparison with my friend. I have tried minimising contact but it makes no odds. I want to move on but I seem unable to do so.... (195 words)

Do I tell my ex about the rebound relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two and half years and I took a small break, not because we didn't love eachother but because of the long distance between us. AFter we broke up, I had a rebound relationship that lasted about 4 weeks. I broke it off rather quicly because my feelings for my ex ... (90 words)

Do guys eventually give up if the girl wont have sex with them?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - do players get turned off by girls who don't want to have sex with them straightaway? surely at some point they lose interest and give up on a girl who won't give them what they want?... (36 words)

Should I settle down with my cross-dressing partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I did write a post on here nearly 2 years ago about my partner who had told me that wearing female clothing is something that he has wanted to do from a young age. Anyway i have really been struggling with this finding It so hard to deal with. It was the cause of my partners ... (508 words)

Found out my husband had an affair and frequents massage parlors....should I leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age - We have been married for 30 years. I thought we had a great sexual relatioship but find out now that my husband had an affair for 2 years in our 3rd yr of marriage. Ten yrs later he met up with the same woman and I'm not sure what took place ( Bit weird ~ story does not make ... (127 words)

Are high cheekbones attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Are high cheek bones on a woman attractive? Or not attractive? I've just noticed how high my cheekbones actually are! My grandma said all women in our family have high cheekbones i just never noticed... They arent like that noticable im not skinny akinny so i have some skin ... (64 words)

I want to clear my conscience and tell the boyfriend of the girl I slept with what I did. Should I do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all I did something very bad, and I'm quite ashamed of it I had sex with a girl who has a boyfriend. Sure, that happens all the time, but this girl...well...I work with her boyfriend, and I also work with her mum. idiot? yep i know, the guilt is actually drivin... (743 words)

Finding it very hard to feel content with my boyfriend and our life at present

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, How can I find peace and be content? I love my boyfriend very much, and he is a great boyfriend. He is kind, joyous, generous, thoughtful, and considerate. He is respectful and has a wonderful sense of humor. I know he is faithful. He is one of the best and mos... (509 words)

I feel so awkward with my boyfriends family! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so my boyfriend is korean and speaks english as his first language. i don't understand or speak korean at all and when im at his home i feel excluded sometimes because his dad for only speaks korean and nothing else. his mum does speak english and speaks it with me and him.... (364 words)

I'm 6 weeks pregnant, against abortion and the guy is no longer interested in me and has a girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 6 wks pregnant and worried about our relationship? Is he done with me now? What should I do? I'm 18 and have been in college mostly interested in singing only interesting thing about college is this guy I'm highly attracted to. We had hooked up a few times going out and th... (198 words)

Scared to get hurt for the second time....what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay. I'll try to not make this too long. I have this ex boyfriend/friend who recently came back into my life a couple months ago. We have known each other for a very long time,(since we were 12 and 13, we're 28 and 29 now) and we dated when we were teens. We were always ... (530 words)

Ridiculous crush on a co-worker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have developed a ridiculous crush on a male coworker. We've been friends for over 3 years. We've hung out sometimes outside of work and one time even slept in the same bed (fully clothed). The night that happened, we went out together to see a band play and went back to... (599 words)

Was boyfriend posing as someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Today i logged into hotmail on my boyfriends ipad and another person was logged on. The profile was just started. I think November 1st. I had no time to look cuz he was asking what i was looking at. I said nothing but he knew it was something. he said let me take a look acting ... (155 words)

How do I talk to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So Im in high school and I am pretty good with the ladies but idk, I seem to have become really shy since middle school to highschool and most of the girls I know went to a different school so I have been hanging out with guys for like two weeks now, and haven't talked to a ... (73 words)

I can never talk to my LDR boyfriend anymore and I may be pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a Long distance relationship only a 2hour drive away. Were almost at a year in January but have been friends for 5 year going on 6. These past three months he's hardly talked to me but he doesn't stop completely. One time he went 3 weeks until he s... (711 words)

Do you have any advice on how I can lose weight & begin eating healthy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you have any advice on how I can lose weight and begin eating healthy? I would like to get a head start on my New Years Resolution and begin to make changes in my life. My health is one of those changes. Any advice? Thanks. ... (58 words)

What do guys look for in a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Young guys that is, in their late teens, early twenties.... (22 words)

Is it normal to need to pee after sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - After I have sex or any other sexual things, I have an urge to pee. I was just wondering, is this normal or common for women to do?... (29 words)

At the beginning of our relationship my g/f kissed another guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend of about a month and a half kissed another guy but it was in the beginning of the relationship. She was leading him on but after that kiss she hadnt talked to him since. I found out from her because she said it was eating her alive. Should I even consider ... (58 words)

How can I prove to my dad that nothing will change my sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey there, So, I came out of the closet on October 11, 2011 (National Coming Out Day) and my dad didn't/isn't taking it so well. He's trying to blame anything he can think of, such as people telling me I am, himself, the activities I participate in (marching band, winter gua... (413 words)

When a girl smiles at you and says something kinda ignorant but with sarcasm,what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok girls this ones for you... I have yet to determine what this means when she does it,maybe you can tell me When a girl smiles at you and says something kinda ignorant but with sarcasm,what does that mean? Example: Sean you're such a smartass,but in a good way? I f... (75 words)

Men are selfish!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, the title says it all and I am sick to death, borderline disgusted by the selfish nature of men. Let's not deny it. It is 100% true. I have no problem attracting men. But here's the thing, The second an attractive woman ignores the man who is compelled to make a pass the... (592 words)