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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try to get rid of my sexual fantasies about my language teacher? Especially as I do have a Bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, I have a boyfriend for 2 years now, I love him and he's very nice with me we also get along very well in bed. He is a german so he wants me to learn his language so I took a course at my university. I have never this type who falls in love wiht the teachers... (216 words)

Did he lie and cheat, even though he denies it? What would suggest he lied?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is ridiculously long but please, I really really need help. Just skim over it maybe? This guy would wipe my tears away and told me he's not like those guys who use girls for sex, he's in it for long-term, and he'll wait for me for as long as it takes. We talked... (922 words)

I adore my boyfriend. But what can I do about his rude behavior?'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I do love him very much. However, I've really gone off him recently. He's rude to everyone. He yells at his mum and orders her about, he doesn't talk to my parents even when he is stood next to them ( he will j... (219 words)

Feel like I'm falling apart. Am I a fool to think happiness could be mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just split up from my partner of nearly 12 years. We have 2 young children. I had stopped loving my partner many years ago although i only told him it was about 2 years ago. It took me a long time to admit it to myself and even longer to admit it to someone else. This ... (414 words)

Family Issues! Am I wrong for being so angry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hello! I apologise in advance as this is likely to be a long question and it's a family matter rather than love! It's the first time I have asked for advice so please reply kindly I just need some kind reassurance I think... : S Ok, so a few years ago I told my mum that h... (764 words)

Deep down my friend is as cold as stone, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who is very outgoing, confident, and self-promoting. She is very loud and sure of herself. At first, everyone wants to be friends with her, because she is so bubbly and witty. She knows all the inside jokes and references that I know nothing about. She is also ... (273 words)

My step mum makes no effort with me now her and my Dad have their own family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My parents have been divorced for 16 years after my dad had an affair with my step mum, and I'm 20. Over these 16 years, they got married and had my half sister (6) and since she was born I feel that my step mum is not trying to maintain a relationship with me and we have d... (363 words)

I am addicted to porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

5 November 2011 (M) age 41-50 - I am quite badly addicted to porn and it makes me struggle concentrating on anything else properly. If it was happening once in a week , then I guess it would have been okay but I spend most of my time watching porn and getting jerk off in front of it. Also red color nail p... (129 words)

Birth control and tumors-does anyone think their is a connection?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. I am 17 yrs old and am diagnosed with a benign tumor in my breast. They call it "fibroadenosis". I've also been on birth control for 7 months but have not told the doctor. Does anyone think me being on birth control has anything to do with my tumor?? thank you :)... (54 words)

What does he really think and want and why with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy, we'll call him D, he always flirts with everyone but he is always doin' sexual stuff to me in class, such as stuff like grabbin' my butt, pokin' me in my boob, runnin' his finger up across my butt, or vibrating it, all in a joking way. Why would he flirt ... (106 words)

I love him, but parents think he's not compatible for me, can't support my future...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are so in love with each other. I know how he loves me so much and trying to make me happy as he could. He is a mature minded man although we are in same age. He is patience and low profile. He guide me how to be a g... (415 words)

My friends partner left him after seventeen years together, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age - My friends partner left him after seventeen years together. We found out later that she had been cheating on him and left him for this bloke. He treated her well and never cheated on her. She really couldn't have ended the relationship in a worse way and would discuss or talk ... (138 words)

I don't understand if this guy was genuine or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand if this guy was genuine or not? I met him and we got along and both obviously were attracted to each other.. Then he disappeared during the night and i didn't see him again, so i took the hint he wasn't interested and bailed. Well i saw him again random... (189 words)

Men - indifferent or very interested in being found attractive by the other sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - A question really for guys I guess, but I don't mind women answering - my friend and I are debating whether, if you know a guy say, through friends or somewhere like work and you don't see them that often but are friendly and would, for example, have lunch or a coffee together, ... (201 words)

Is my boyfriend psycho or something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf were together for 3 years and 7 months. I am 26 and he is 24. We have been through some wild periods (arguing a lot, broke up several times, got back together). He is a bit difficult to talk to and solve problems, since he does not like talking about feelings and ... (657 words)

What do you think he feels for me: love or sympathy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts. I am 32 yo female and I have been in love with this guy for about 8 yrs now. I am a charming, caring, and loving person and I have shown him my cares in many ways. I mean my and his friends have also seen it. They have also said he cares about me as well. ... (192 words)

Should I just become a womanizer so women will notice me more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I just don't understand why im single. When I was younger I was always over looked by girls as a potential date. Granted though I was skinny unkempt idiot back then but I was still a nice guy. Fast forward to today and alot has changed. 2 Years ago I finally decided that it was ... (169 words)

He's stood me up 3 times, I guess he never liked me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why couldn't he have told me he's not into me instead of leading me on? So there's this guy that I like, I thought he liked me too. He told me he wanted us to take things slow. But he's stood me up 3times. We'd make plans but when the day comes he won't ring me or show u... (166 words)

It bothered me that she showed more attention to her new friend than me and I let it show!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl from my class, and we are best friends, She knows that i like her. Both of us along with my room-mate and his girl friend (we all are in the same class in college) had planned to go on a road trip on motorcycles. In the last minute another friend of us also joi... (381 words)

I've done everything to help him but he used me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i pick myself up. ive recently discovered a man i thought was a good friend has used me for personal gain. whenever he needed money-i was the only one he trusted -i feel so stupid. when he started my job he seemed genuine and i did like him a lot but then he begam with ... (219 words)

A 24 year old dating a 17 year old?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question about a 24 year old dating a 17 year old. I'm 24 and 7 months, and I do have a crush on a 17 year old highschooler. I'm wondering is it ok to get to know her and become close friends? I know I can't have sex, but would casual dating be ok? I don't know if I ... (81 words)

How am I supposed to feel with what I am involved with right now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here's a bit about me I've recently turned 21 and i am studying social work, however recently my mother has become severly ill due to rheumtoid arthuritus so i care for her and my brother a majority of the time. When growing up my father was aggresive towards me, not my... (295 words)

How can I know whether he likes me or not...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all...How u all are fine. Well there is this guy working in a supermarket. whenever i enter the supermarket that guy will always look at me and will come and greet me. Today when i entered the shop....he was talking to a girl and when he saw me he was kind of shocked. I ... (102 words)

Quick and easy steps to get a boy to notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay ive never had a boyfriend and i want one might say im rushing but i dont care i see couples walking and i feel left out i would like to know some ways to get a boy to notice me quick and easy steps and some boys i dont talk to what can i say to them to get a friendship ... (63 words)

I want to be supportive but have an equal say in this stressful situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and My boyfriend have been together a little over 8 months now and have been living together for 2 months. I am 28 years old and he is 35. Basically shortly into our relationship he gets a call from this one night stand(which I will never understand the concept of a one ... (460 words)

Does stress make it worse? And is it normal and reversible for a young man of 20-23 to be less interested in sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This question goes out to the mainly the MALES out there but women who are experienced with this matter are also welcome!! please let me know..does a LOT of stress at work...working day and night ,too many responsibilities,worries,etc make a man less interested in sex? not co... (69 words)

He's a friend of my husband. What should I do now? I am so hurt by his behaviour after I played a trick and caught him flirting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i always doubted that my boyfriend was not being honest with me when he said that he loves me so to prove my point i created a fake id on face book with a different female name and sent him a friend request which he accepted without knowing that it was me. he was talking too.... (196 words)

I'm in a relationship with my ex's cousin (whom I don't love), just to get back at my ex for dumping me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - 8 months back, my girlfriend dumped because she thought I had no future by doing small time job and it hurt me quiet badly but I didn’t say a word and quietly planned revenge on her. We spent 6 years together ! So for the last 4 months, I am in a relationship wit... (148 words)

I wonder if family stress should be blamed for the loss of my cat to kidney disease? Or are there other factors that cause kidney failure ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Readers, I lost my Cornish Rex Male cat in April of this year. He was like a friend to me and I am still very distressed about it despite having counselling and being on anti depressants. If there are any other cat lovers out there I was just wondering if they could give m... (398 words)

My girlfriend has put on weight, she thinks I have lost interested in her, how can I make her understand that I haven't ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My 4 years old Girlfriend has put on weight in recent months and she thinks I have lost interest in her. Yet I have told her countless times that I haven’t and it’s just that my new position in office demands me to work harder and extend my working hours at times. She has star... (108 words)

Laundry drama. Is she being ungrateful, or am I messing up by doing an incomplete job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Since we have been living together (2 months) I have been the one doing the laundry. I have been the one primarily doing the laundry because I am much tidier than her and I generally don't like to go more than one and a half weeks without washing. So my girl today said that ... (206 words)

Should I just be single? Because I'm going either way whether he like it or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so my boyfriend and I been together for a year and a half I'm 18 freshman at a community college. My friend (a boy) goes to ^^^^ State. and I want to go up and visit and experience that college life and party. He's mad I guess that I'm taking three days off from work and ... (198 words)

My Girlfriend can be too proud. She hurts me when she makes fun of me. Is this normal for girls to be so proud and unkind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Here in Dubai, I have been in a relationship with a pretty American girl for the last 16 months. I am from Pakistan, I have been here for the last 6 years and doing clerical job. She is just one year younger than me and is working on a very good position in a well-reputed comp... (177 words)

Should I cut communication? Why would he be talking to me more often all of a sudden, saying that he misses me and loves me? He has a Girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in this really complicated situation with a long term friend of mine. Me and this guy have been very close friends and at one point things escalated. We got involved with each other even though he had a girlfriend. We have been involved for a little over a year and he has a ... (237 words)

How can I break up with him? I want to. But he says things that make me afraid to break up with him. Help, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help me? I tried breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years and 4 months, but he just reeled me back in like the other 5 or more times. Now, we're just 'friends' until I feel that we should be together but I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. I like my best ... (164 words)

Shouldn't I feel something (anything!) on the first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to forget this man I fell hard for and get into a committed relationship. It's hard but I'm trying. I went on a date and though the man was nice, cute boyish face, and we had a lot in common-I didn't feel anything. I hoped and hoped he wouldn't try to kiss me and ... (63 words)

Our first exclusive date. Any tips please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ModNote: You are 17. It may help if the you posted a follow up on the age of your boyfriend, as the Aunts and Uncles may appreciate that information My boyfriend and I are going on our first exclusive date (just the two of us, we usually go with a group), and I'm a little b... (163 words)

Why does he need to be so ANGRY at me/? I just wish he would go slow and gentle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years (A VERY on and off relationship mainly him breaking up with me every year for a month or couple of weeks). We have a good relationship other than the sex thing which we haven't done yet. We done everything else that we can ... (424 words)

Is it me? Can someone please tell me whats going on? Because I'm scared of falling for him deeper if he's going to hurt me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend, I've liked him for a while. I'm a close friend of his, I'm always there for him. Lately he's been depressed because he crashed his car, has no girl friend, failing some college classes and doesn't really like what he's studying at all. ( suuuucks ) We... (464 words)

What do I do? The medication I'm taking makes me feel like a zombie

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been on Citalopram for a year and switched over to Setraline as i had a panic attack once and citalopram was making me too tired to do anything other than sleep. Been on sert for a week. I joined up rowing and archery. My strength and endurance has improved despite ... (311 words)

Do I save my own skin and pull away from her? Or keep going, and hope for her to like me, eventually, and vica versa?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically one of my mates and I have started getting very close over the last few months to the point that we are cuddle bitches one could say : The issue is that as the one in this situation, i dont mind and sort of enjoy the female attention i am getting.However i dont want... (187 words)

From day one I have loved him. But? Love him but don't trust him....what should I do????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. And we have gotten pretty serious. He has told his family about me and other people but he doesnt tell any of his female friends we are together. And when they ask who he is dating he tells them he is dating hims... (143 words)

How can I help my gay friend? He's returned to his lover under duress and my friend is so sad about ti.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on how to help my friend. My best friend X is a gay guy and well he hasn't exactly told his family he is gay. And for the past 3 years he has been in this relationship with this guy(lets call him Y). From where i stand it has been a pretty aweful relat... (232 words)