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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell my boyfriend I'm ready to have sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 16 year old girl who is a proud virgin, and my ex boyfriend who i like has asked for sex in the beginning and I told him no. He now after 6 months still likes me and never even hints the idea. But now all of a sudden im craving sex! What do I do!?... (57 words)

How am I going to get out of this mess and who should I be with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - It started February 2010,thats when S first told me that he loved me,then we went through a stage where we were like friends then we fell out, we were friends then we fell out, more times than you can ever imagine, for the whole of 2010. Then in 2011 it started dying down a ... (402 words)

I'm sick of him but I don't want to lose him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im.14 and so is my boyfriend he smokes and i dont like it he trys and presures me into it but i dont want to and whrn hes with his friends he does it more but when were alone hes really sweet and makes me feel special. he just sits there and talks to me about his little sister ... (111 words)

He said I "owe" him sex!!! Should I feel bad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - On another note, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last week after him controlling me for over 2 years. A week before I had began getting closer to my guy friend but I hadn't noticed it 'till I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a week since my break up and my ex-boyfriend ... (133 words)

Help!!! Do I stay... or do I go???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I will try and keep this as to the point as possible, because I really could use some help. I am a bisexual guy who is not "out", and I ended up in a relationship with a guy now for over a year that stemmed from a random hookup. I fell for him fast and hard. I do love him, ... (505 words)

I hate my girlfriend's new haircut

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My girlfriend got a new hairdo the other week and I hate it, but I don't have the guts to tell her. When she said she was going for a haircut I thought she meant just a light trim like she always had but little did I know she would be coming home with a much shorter bob cut. ... (165 words)

She is the whole package but her hobby is really freaking me out!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for the last two years with a girl who’s the complete package but for the last two months a strange hobby of hers is creating some doubts and fears in my mind. She’s been keenly watching serial killer movies and tv shows. She says this genre ... (217 words)

I'm paranoid that once he saw me naked he was turned off.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy and last night he stayed over for the first time. We had a couple of glasses of wine and we began to get frisky. However, when we got down to business he had a semi erection and couldnt get a full erection all night. Does this mean he doesnt fancy me? I'm paranoid ... (68 words)

Why do some guys like women to send them nude pictures???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I say anything just thought i say that DO NOT judge me for this cause I`ve beaten myself up about it and regret it, plus i`m an adult. Also i have another question which relates to my post so instead of making another post I decided to post the other question here so ... (372 words)

Should I tell her about my discovery???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Recently, I came home from work and my wife and I had dinner. We have an 8 month old daughter. As we were making dinner, she said the cat knocked over a bottle of wine, and spilled a bunch of wine everywhere. At dinner, she told me she was feeling some bad post-partum ... (238 words)

My husband thinks I'm cheating on him but I'm not!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Around 4 clock in the morning my husband gets off of work. He decided to take the trash out this morning at that time. A single sheet of blank loose leaf paper was in front of our door when he went, Now he didn't think much of it until when he came back in front our door ... (233 words)

Why doesn't he trust me with his house key?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 months (but we dated for almost 2 years beginning in 2008). He recently moved into his own house were he lives alone but he didn't give me a key, which I didn't have a problem with or say anything about but I wouldn't stay the night ... (408 words)

Is it bad that my friend who is 19 has foreplay with strangers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think it's bad if a girl who is only nineteen, has foreplay, but not sex with guys she's met on a night out? Because, my flatmate does this and says it's being young and having fun. She said she wouldn't ever sleep with anyone she just met, she has only about three... (248 words)

Am I just one of his flings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for four months now, we'll call him Peter. When peter and I were in bed last night he was telling me about some of his old flings and what silly things they used to do. He's had so many flings and when he was asleep it got me thinking. Am I one of these ... (162 words)

He watches porn every night and it upsets me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 years and we have 2 kids, a 2 yr old and a 3 month old. I caught him watching porn back in 2010, and it started a bit of an argument, he thought I was sleeping, he got extremely defensive and almost offended I walked out of our ... (373 words)

I want to be the girl he always wants to call!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well there's this boy that's my ex, he's 14 and im 16. we're always talking on the phone. does anyone know any questions I could ask him cause we're both shy and we don't know what to talk about??? I want to be the girl that he would always want to call. can somebody help me ... (66 words)

I feel like she is leading me on, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age - I recently met a divorced woman at work, we hit it off quite well. We have had great sex as well as make each other happy, my question is now twice she has pulled back and wants to be friends, I feel like she is leading me on what should I do... (52 words)

Separated over an emotional affair that I suspect may be physical too

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I would appreciate advice and opinions about this. I am now beginning to believe that there is a high possibility of my H’s emotional affair being physical as well. Just this past weekend (Friday), he said he would spent the night at his parents’ home after a ... (480 words)

Does he like me and want to take things slow? Or am I putting him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fifteen, i started seeing a boy about 2 weeks ago and at first, i split up his friendship with two of his friends because i'd played them. I said sorry and we all made friends but me and this boy have grown strong feelings for each other. He is seventeen which isnt unusual ... (392 words)

Months later I'm still suspicious

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have 4 children.When our youngest was 8mths old (he is now 16 months) I thought my partner was cheating.I didn`t say anything at the time because after having all the babies in quick succession,I felt a bit jealous that his life seemed to stay the same and mine ... (264 words)

In fairness I need to make up my mind between the two of them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having a little trouble making a decision. Ive been single for nearly 2 years now but I recently started seeing someone and things were goin ok then I started talking to a girl I've met a few times and I started seeing her to. It's not at the point were I need to make a... (295 words)

No sex in 5 years, does it matter to guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - To the Men on Dearcupid, What would you think if you started a relationship with a woman who hadn't had sex in 5 years? Would it freak you out? Or does it simply not matter? Thanks I was just wondering!... (40 words)

Boyfriend admitted to one-night stand!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years confessed yesterday that few weeks back he had an one night stand, he was heavely drunk and didn't realise what he was getting into. I really dont understand how he could he say since he was drunk he didnt know what he was doing. I dont want t... (87 words)

I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away from home to a new city a year ... (525 words)

Holiday Flirt in Town and Exchanging Numbers with my Man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently my boyfriend and I were on vacation. In the resort there was another man (we're gay) who was obviously gay too, and he always smiled at my boyfriend and sometimes they stole glances at each other. I don't mind that kind of harmless flirting, but when we came back from ... (167 words)

He is not calling... should I call or give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for ALMOST 2 years.....he usually calls me multiple times a day sometimes even more.... but recnetly ive been alittle busy so i could really answer his calls but to make up for missing his calls i sent him a txt saying "sorry...etc" he ... (141 words)

The Guy is Distancing himself from me and I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this guy on an iPhone dating app and he seemed to really like me. I gave him my number and we startes texting and Skyping the same day, we really hit it off. Only problem is he lives about 1000 miles from me :( well we've only been talking for about a ... (253 words)

How can I enjoy sex with my partner who has a small penis? And is masturbation ok even though I'm in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i make myself to enjoy while having sex even though my partner have a small penis? And is mastubation good for someone who is in a relationship?... (30 words)

I've become the jealous snooping boyfriend! How can we work through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I had been with my girlfriend for 15 years. She had gone to college for 6 years in order to, "get the job of her dreams."During the last 3 years of our relationship she became addicted to world of Warcraft and there was no sign of her seriously getting a job so I ended the ... (520 words)

After all these hints he didnt propose! I'm getting depressed about this, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I thought he was going to propose last night. We've been together for three years, and the hints he kept dropping were leading me to believe that. But he didn't. Instead, to celebrate our anniversary he gave me some chocolates and flowers. I told him that I thought he was going ... (347 words)

How do I let go of my ex, especially in the aftermath of my assault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was recently sexually assaulted. After the incident, I was in hysterics, and for some reason, I called my ex boyfriend crying for help. He picked me and my best friend up and took me home. My best friend told him what happened. All he said to me was that he hoped I pressed ... (293 words)

Struggling with my sexual orientation....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm having a little trouble coming to terms with my sexual orientation. I have always believed I was strait after having a string of girlfriends and many sexual partners. But over the last couple of years I have found myself being attracted to men and finding them ... (243 words)

She has broken my trust - is it ok for me to ask her to no longer contact her ex's and change her phone number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf has recently completely broken my trust in her and its the second time she has damaged our relationship. the first was she was catching up with an ex boyfriend and lied to me about it and i later found out and second she was having an online relationship with another man ... (150 words)

I am married woman lusting after a married man! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (?) age 36-40 - 4months ago i met a guy at a beach party. nothing happened, not even a kiss but i was so attracted to him, don't know on his side if he felt the same. long story short, i searched him on FB and send him a mail, didn't send a friend request or my phone number as am afraid ... (375 words)

What to do about cheating husband who is into porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to all of you.i have been with my husband for almost 4 years.we are married for almost 3 years.he was married b4.he has a child with women.the reason he is not with her anymore is that he cheated on her. My problem is that he has cheated on me and i can not get over it and f... (304 words)

Rocky relationship with Married ex. HELP.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have an ex boyfriend, i guess you could call him that i love him alot! Anyway we started of as good friends and things went from there. However, he decided to go back to his wife who he was separated from, they have three kids together etc. Though while he said they were ... (937 words)

My Guy Friend wants more than friendship but I don't feel the same!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy. Who I've known for five years, but really never felt anything toward romantically. He's my best guy friends and has helped me through alot but the thought of dating him, let alone kissing him, or holding his hand creeps me out. We hungout tonight and ... (150 words)

Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of me all the time. I was like ... (177 words)

Threesome concerns

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - IS it ok for my boyfriend to want to be bestfriends with my babys daddy and perhaps thinking about having a threesome with him and also trying to get me jealous over him?? Is this normal because i'm having serious issiues with it, help!! sexyginger... (45 words)

We're arguing every day how do I stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. We're both 17 and we both are interested in a long-term relationship. We've pretty much got it figured that we're going to be together forever. But lately I've been realizing that she's been sad. She has plenty of reason ... (341 words)

Came on too strong again with potential hook or friend (im not quite sure what he is)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So i met this guy i worked with like 2.5 yrs ago. We hooked up and then i kind of fell for him and he stopped talking to me. It was really awkward for a while. Then he was transferred to another location. During that time we stopped talking (mainly because he wanted to). ... (213 words)

Does a Player Make Girls their Girlfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did he go cold? I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 18 months. Right towards the end i met this guy who seemed great and he msg'd me and talked to me all day everyday he was so keen. When my relationship finally fell thru with the bf this guy got even more keen ... (464 words)

Is this an appropriate message for a cheating ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I send this to my ex who cheated on me? " Remember when you said to me that I'm a strong person, I thought I was but do you think I'd be here with you right now if I was? I'm weak callum, weak for coming back to you while knowing there's a chance we won't be together... (436 words)

Should I let my ex in to my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, recently my ex boyfriend has returned for the 3rd time trying to get close to me. I always end up getting hurt but this time seems diffrent in a way. He isnt ready to commit until after high school, but he says he really likes me and he has not dated anyone since we broke ... (141 words)

Fear is limiting my life. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I let fear in my head keep me from doing plenty of things in life. I think I talk to myself to much in my head. I always think to myself I can't do this or if I do it someone will talk about and I'll end up making myself nervous or shy because I think to myself alot and I tell ... (145 words)

do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB will ever love them, if th... (154 words)

A week after his wedding (not to me)...he's sleeping on my floor. HELP my head is frying ? What do I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi..I got friendly with a guy a few years ago. he was a single parent in a long distance relationship, we became friends..... I babysat the children, took them to school...grew to love all of them and we had some really fabulous 'family' times together. I'm in my 40's divo... (122 words)

I can't tel my boyfriend about my emotional problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I can't tell my boyfriend about any of my emotional problems because I don't want to worry him or because I know he won't be able to help but I feel like I have no one to talk to anymore. When I tell him I feel down or depressed he just kind of shrugs it off and ... (72 words)

Realisation that your ex is a bloody 'user!!'

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Tonight, I have (at last) realised why my ex keeps in touch with me...because he's bored (as he work nights) and for a 'confidence' boost...(occasionally, but rarely texts me when he's off...!) I am no longer going to play 'his game'... Just wondered how long it took... (76 words)

Peer pressure about sex/virginity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya! I was just wondering about some help for peer pressure. Basically I'm almost 18, but I'm still a virgin when all of my friends are not. I'm getting a bit sick of every conversation I have with my friends having something to do with sex as it makes me feel a little bit ... (162 words)

After I have sex with boyfriend I lose all interest!

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10 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, erm I don't really know how to put this. Every time I have sex with a guy and they become my boyfriend I lose all interest in them and completely do not enjoy sex with them. I don't know what is wrong with me. I was in a relationship on and off for 4 years and I wasn... (206 words)

Would she like me to approach her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i was just wondering how to know if this girl in my class wants me to approach her. she sits on the other side of the classroom but our eyes meet quickly a few times a day. i will look over and her direction and she will quickly look away and vice versa. she laffed at a comment ... (150 words)