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writes:I've broke up with my ex of 5months...before that we are loving couple;he loved me,respects me,he covered and put up with my flaws...problem we had was that we argue too often..mostly about loyalty,trust and cheatingI love him but I always doubted his loyalty for he posted flirt comments and walls to random girls in his friend list.The longest we've gone without fight was in a week..I've decided to end with him for I've grew tired of endless argument,despite of loved him so much...However,the day after break up..he seems completely moved on:he posted happy walls,flirting had gone worse,told his friend that I was unwise enough to overcome obstacles and that I was foolish...I was very disappointed that he'd be that way,as if all those memories and love we've shared were just a fling to him...Did he ever love me or I'm just a entertainment to himfrom very start?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): well my guess is that he probably did love you if he put up with the flaws and the arguments and to be fair it sounds like your better off out of the relationship and moving on to find someone who you dont have that kind of
tempremental realtionship with.
I've been in that position and he probably dosen't want you to know how much he's hurting so he's kind of gone on the attack and is trying to proove that he's not hurt. I've done it and its more than likely just his way of coping you'll be in a relationship with someone where its not like that and you'll realise if it comes to an end that it can be a strangely nice ending with no bad feelings on either part.
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reader, Red Boy  +, writes (30 November 2011):
I now this feeling. My ex broke up with me multiple times and then within a few days found someone else. I still love her and that's why I can't just move on so quickly. I find myself wondering if she ever truly loved me.
My answer: I don't know. Maybe he does it to hide the pain. Some people feel better when they jump right back into the game than they do just sitting down and being depressed. I believe sitting down and being depressed shows the feelings you shared with that person. Some people just break under depression.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Its heartbreaking that your ex boyfriend has been disrespectful of your feelings one day after your breakup.
This guy obviously is not right for you.
A person in love would never act the way he does.
If you guys fought alot and had trust issues he clearly is not the right person for you in your life.
You need to be with supportive people now and overcome your pain. It will take time but you will get there with the right support.
I hope this helps.
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