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writes:I am in love with my girlfriend and I can't imagine life without her, but recently I have been noticing another girl, whom I declared to be one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen many times but never actually felt anything over her. However I have noticed her so much more recently, and very recently during an intimate time with my girlfriend I actually lifted my head to look my Girlfriend in the eye and I actually saw this other girl's face.My heart stopped for a second I was so scared at what had just happened and since then I have been too scared to look at this other girl, or even any other girls, I'm scared that something is changing in me and I'm losing my girlfriend, what is happening? What is wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): What relationship do u have with the other girl? Does she even like you? How do u know eachother etc.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 You may have been tired and it happened for a split second.
But if it keeps happening and the vision lasts for longer or keeps returning, then yes, do see the Doctor.
Do not be ashamed or hesitant to tell the Doctor exactly what you experienced. The situation, the events leading up to it. The evasive action you took and the outcome.
if there is a simmering problem then the Doctor may seek a second opinion.
Don't hold back and try to determine the answer yourself.
If your girl friend is loyal to you then allow her to support you more. If you feel vulnerable and feel you are losing her then tell her your fears, she may not be feeling the same as you are feeling about the relationship. She may not even think there is a problem.
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