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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 17 and have never had a Girlfriend. So girls: Do you think I sound like I'm attractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls: Do you think I sound like I'm attractive? I'm really nice, a sweetheart, really smart, I have some friends who are girls. I am confident, tough, strong, dependable, loyal and I comb my hair. If I had a girlfriend I would love my girlfriend all in my heart. I do play vide... (200 words)

He's separated, but still married and I really fancy him. He's also getting over breaking up with his Gf. Am I doing the right thing to go out with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

18 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - hey a friend of mine asked me out today, i've fancied him since i've known him but there are a few problems. 1 he's married, separated, but still married. 2 he's just had a messy break up with his girlfriend so he's near enough public enemy no 1 3 he has a baby with... (177 words)

LDR boyfriend does not appear to respect me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, so this is my first relationship ever, and him and i have been in a relationship for over a year now, he's over seas right now so we video call, instant message or call each other but he speaks to me really disrespectfully. So i asked him about it, and he was like, i'll ... (365 words)

Is he hiding something? Weekends he seems to disappear? Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I met this guy 3 weeks back in a dinner and we instantly liked each other. we exchanged numbers and he texted me the same night. We're in touch on a daily basis,we talk about how much we like each other and that we're both single. he's very nice except for last... (155 words)

She says she needs time to find herself. should I keep waiting or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - She says she needs time to figured out wether she can leave the past behind or not. Should I keep waiting or should I let go and move on? Eight years ago I had a girlfriend who I cheated on with my exboyfriend and got pregnant. When we broke up I met my current exgirlfr... (788 words)

Penis is too visible. How do I wear my underwear appropriately?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - bit of a personal question like but here goes, my penis is about 3-4 inches when flacid and about 7-8 inches erect but my problem is when flacid my penis sticks straight out like a perfect 'L' against my abdomen, and when erect it is almost touching my belly and i cant realy ... (114 words)

Was she using me? Never interested in the first place?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This is about a girl I met on the internet about 2 years ago. I'm from Norway, she's from Spain. We've always stayed friends until this summer she asked me, surprisingly, to come visit her in Spain and she wanted to know my relationship status. We kept in contact basicall... (271 words)

How do I overcome my boyfriends past behaviour and gain my confidence back, should I stay or go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I would really appreciate some advice off both men and women please, I desperatly need help of some sort, as much as possible please. I am a 22 year old woman, my boyfriend is 32, I have been with him near 4 years now. He is my first and only, but because of t... (857 words)

Astonished that he could have done something so evil

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, here's the situation. I met this guy randomly and he asked for my number. I met him after a few days for a first day, and we instantly clicked. I saw him again and again for months and quickly fell in love with him. After the first month I started seeing him every other ... (612 words)

She isn't good for me and I want to (politely) move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi this is my first time on this site. I am feeling quite confused and depressed. I am in love with a girl, i think shes my best friend or im hers i dont know, but anyway, I get the feeling she only talks to me if she needs help with something or if the person she wants to talk ... (234 words)

New baby, but an unsupportive abusive husband. No wonder I'm depressed. What should I do to cope with all this pressure?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been feeling very unhappy after I got married.. been feeling depressed..I had a baby 7 months ago; I have been staying at home watching the baby and my husband has been complaining about expenses. He 's been telling me I wish That he could be the one staying at home and... (420 words)

Sex is all about him - he does nothing for me and I feel unsatisfied

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you make of this? My husband and I have been together for 10 years.. married for 7. We have 2 children. OK this is going to get kinda graphic.... so we recently went 18 months without having sex. If he ever wants it, it completely involves his own satisfaction and ... (177 words)

How to locate a sibling that was put up for adoption?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a younger brother that was given up for adoption. Both of his parents have passed and the only information I have is...... His birth name (which I believe was changed after the adoption) The hospital he was born in the year he was born and both of my hu... (66 words)

How can I make relationships last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I'm 21 years and I'm having a problem dating. I'm not good at sex and I can't seem to last in relationships,I don't know what to do please help??... (79 words)

He moans about giving me oral, am I being unreasonable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I have the right to be upset? Thank you for all advice and for your time! I appreciate it all so much!!! I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. About two and a half months into our relationship we began to become intimate. I go down on him regularly. I swa... (1011 words)

Is she interested? Whenever we are together all she does is talk about other guys!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend, who I think is totally amazing. She tells me she misses me, that she loves me, and wants to be with me forever. That's all when she texts me, when we're in person, she constantly talks about other men. I don't mean every 6 months she says Johnny Depp is ... (127 words)

New boyfriend's female friends.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi hi.. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 5 months. Its all going well, we have been taking it slowly, not rushing anything, and were both really happy. The thing I am wondering about it, is the fact that he has so many female friends. I've never dated... (306 words)

Sex life is not enough for me and she is not willing to try anthing to spice it up! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi me and my girlfried have been together 5 yrs. And have a 1 and a half yeah old. My problem is my partner no longer seems to enjoy or want to initiate sex. I know over time you have sex less but we are still in our 20's and have sex probaly twice a month. I would like alot ... (154 words)

What are symptoms of a ruptured uterine fibroid, and treatment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Havent been feeling well all week. Fatigue, adominal pain... woke up this morning with exteme adominal pain and bleeding. Have a history of uterine fibroids. Had intercourse on wednesday and it was a little painful. Is it possible i had one and it ruptured? What are symptoms of ... (54 words)

In 10 months we have never been out anywhere together and only his brother knows about me, should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was just wondering why men always have to play games when they know a woman likes them? I met a man nearly 10 months ago now we live close by he asked me out and I have a three year old son from a previous relationship. anyway I couldn't get a babysitter for our first date ... (257 words)

The age old question: Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! OK, a little backstory: he is my classmate in this tertiary course we're in, both of us being in second year (I didn't know him from 1st 'cause this is a newly merged programme). The first semester I didn't really see much of him as we were assigned to separate groups,... (534 words)

Is this normal behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - If a man knows a woman is not attracted to them (as in she has repeated many times that she just does not like him in that way) and when she is drunk, he persists in asking her to sleep with him and argues with her reasons for not wanting to (and persists for nearly an hour to ... (141 words)

Can a guy's car make him more (or less) attractive?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Here’s a bit of a strange question. Does the type of car a guy has make him more attractive or less attractive? Does it have an influence on women? The reason I am asking this question is because of this, I used to have a classic BMW, one with chrome bumpers, neat wh... (231 words)

Is it appropriate to hug a teacher?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - first of all,there is an english teacher that i really like and she's a female teacher. she teached me before two years and we are still in the same school and i see her every week. but the problem is that she told me that she's going to another school next year and i really ... (79 words)

One month later, Why don't I feel more connected to her? What's holding me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for about a month now. She's 18 and I'm 23. She's a nice girl, fun to be around, good sense of humour... but as yet, nothing is really drawing me in to her and I don't know why. I am the first boyfriend she has ever had, whereas I have had a few s... (364 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French kissing". Like, when we ... (191 words)

Does this guy still have feelings for me? or does he just want the best of both worlds?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i just recently been dumped by my bf of two months (we were fwb for 6 months prior to him asking me out) he said that he felt that we would just be better off as friends, and that he doesnt feel like nothing had changed between us when he asked me out, and felt that i deserved ... (152 words)

I don't want him to be around our baby ever, am I doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello viewers...I'm back and now I'm shy if 27 weeks pregnant. Things aren't the greatest for me but better.I'm having my third boy and the father still has nothing to do with us. and is mom and brother has accepted the fact and he has beaten his brother up for being around ... (126 words)

Boyfriend is extremely absent minded and has a very difficult time expressing himself emotionally

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf cares about me deeply, but he is extremely absent minded and has a very difficult time expressing himself emotionally. Arguments are awkward and drawn out, because he freezes up and frequently asks what I want him to do or say, because he does not know how to proceed. ... (187 words)

Not sure I can put up with this troublesome "friend" any more. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't know what to do anymore. I've gone on here more than once about this particular subject, and every time it just gets worse and worse. It's about my friend who can't make up her mind on whether or not she wants to be a good friend or a bad friend. I'll call her... (1073 words)

He was too cool, but I still see his old personality

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and i broke up after a year about a month ago. Hes moved on from me but im still madly in love with him. He broke up with me because he was "too cool" for me, but I still see the old personality in him. How can i get him back? Please answer as soon as possible! ... (59 words)

How can I change my G/f's mind about sex? She's had some nasty experiences in the past but my friends' are nagging me about why its taking so long with her

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, me and my gf have been dating for 5 months already. The thing is she's a virgin and I'm not, I of course care about her and do not want to pressure her into doing anything shes uncormfotable with. We've been talking about sex (well maybe ive done all the talking) and ... (244 words)

I really like this girl but looks like she has second thoughts about me. What should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

18 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, its been a while since ive been here but, i am stuck on an issue that might have different and better aproaches. I dated my gf for almost 3 years we broke up like 2 months ago things werent going to great.. But i still love her,, now i met this new girl and we were talking ... (226 words)

Online dating etiquette...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am trying my hand at online dating after being newly single and out of an 8 year relationship. I keep getting bombarded with messages from men I am not interested in. If I ignore then they keep messaging me and plus I feel it is better to be honest. However when I am honest ... (71 words)

I will be seeing my ex at a party and I don't know how I should behave around him. Any advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago after we were together a year. He wanted to concentrate on other things and even though I loved him he wasn't the nicest or most considerate person. I do still love him but recognise I'm a lot better off without him. We had ... (180 words)