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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this guy playing hard to get or is he just not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy last week when we were out, we got on well and he told me he thought i was amazing. He later text me to see if i got home ok. I didnt text back until 3 days later :( just because i get shy sometimes he did text back straight after then asked if i had any plans ... (126 words)

Should I tell my friend I think her relationship is doomed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My friend cheated on her long term partner of about 17 years. He was always good to her. She treated him pretty poorly when she decided to dump him for the fella that she had been cheating with. Few years on now she has married this guy. Deep down I fear the worst for her but ... (86 words)

I'm not gay but I'm falling for a tranny

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, been dating this girl for 3 weeks now and we have decided to get intimate in a few days time. The thing is this 'girl' isn't actually a girl. She's a transsexual. She only told me this today. And I know what you may be thinking, how could I not know or suspect a thing. ... (165 words)

I have no confidence at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am someone who has literally no confidence at all. I have been told that I am a pretty girl, but when I meet someone I may be interested in, and they may be interested in me, I just cannot talk to them. Literally there are no words. I have had opportunities for relat... (177 words)

In love with 4 people!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, this is a bit of a long story, so thanks if you take the time to read all of it: Here's the long story short, I fancy 4 people, one of which is female. It all started 3 years ago, when I had a new music teacher, who was male. He was so cute! From then on, the ... (597 words)

I'm worried I'll never find true companionship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always preferred to be single and I am now thirty. I was hurt badly many years ago. Since then I've traveled and lived abroad and really got to know who I am. I've found a career that I love and I am very content with my life. I've started opening up to the dating world ... (107 words)

I don't trust men because of what I've seen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have grown up with an older brother who's very handsome and charismatic. He definately has a handle in the ladies so to speak. He's never truly been faithful to any girl. I've witnessed this for many years and I find that sometimes I don't trust men because of what I've seen. ... (180 words)

2 month dating and we want to always be together. Do I move to his army base?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay , so I have been dating this guy for about two months now and he has already told me that I am the one he wants to be with for the rest of his life . I also know that I want to do the same . He is getting back into the army and wants me to move in and live on the base with ... (83 words)

How do I ask girls I'm dating to do things to my bum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a super embarrassing question, but here goes: my old girlfriend hada bit of an ass fetish. She used to do things to my bum all the time, and loved it when I did it to her too. Wither her mouth, fingers, sometimes even a dildo. I thought this weird at first but was just ... (166 words)

Am I cursed? Is it karma?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had some of the most unbelievable things happen to me for about 15 years now. Car flipping over and submerging into lake, several close call car wreck with injuries,cervical cancer, emergency brain surgery, seizure disorder and crohn's disease diagnosis to name a few. ... (202 words)

Partner has a loan which will take 4 years to pay off. I'm having second thoughts

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi not sure if I am being silly here but need advice so I can make up my mind about something but I have since discovered that my partner of 1.5 years is paying off a nearly £18,000 loan which will take about 4 years to pay off and was shocked to be told that he spends about ... (132 words)

Does he think I'm a liar?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day dear friends, my story is fresh and happened on a very short time frame. I met this guy in a business meeting 2 years back we spoke briefly during the meeting and I have never seen him again till my boss asked me to call him a week ago and set a meeting with him. As ... (329 words)

Married 10 years and I've never gotten a blow job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Im married for 10 years now , ans never gave me a bj how can I change that she said she never will because she's not an animal she only likes one poaittion. She hates doge style as we'll how can I change that because im locking around now and don't want to?... (53 words)

I don't understand my boyfriend emotionally

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there ..i'm 19,a student..my boyfriend who is 21 has a lot of financial problems at home...he has many loans and commitments of his parents and his own to look after...he's very stressed out.he has a job which he likes but not earning much yet for the qualification he ... (828 words)

Ex may be going to the same college as me, should I try to be friends or ignore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I was dumped pretty badly the Senior year of my high school twice by the same girl (Junior, now Senior). (I was stupid enough to go back for a second round of beating) Reason being she didn't love me anymore, didn't want a LDR and wanted to enjoy her senior ... (477 words)

Not had sex for 3 years now and not sure how I will react now that I have a new girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I haven't had sex the last 3 years and I'm not sure how I will react when my new girlfriend and I get into bed. Has any of you guys been in a similar situation and what do you suggest?... (40 words)

Can someone help me get over this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. I need some help. Y'see.. I am absolutely obsessed with this guy. He's always on my mind, and I want him out, but I need some help forgetting about him. This guy in particular has been an obsession of mine for almost a few months. I never obsess over a guy for more tha... (311 words)

Too many arguments make me want to walk away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello so i have a boyfriend hasnt been that long since we started going out just over a month, but we have so many arguments. We must have one even if its only small every day or most days. We have only had one big one, but he begged and begged me not to leave him and i told no ... (104 words)

I need help preparing a marriage proposal

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age - Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriage that has since ended and while he ... (163 words)

He chose to watch sexy nurses instead of time with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend chose watching sexy nurses on TV instead of reading the horoscope with me...what should I do?... (18 words)

I feel something with him, but I think he doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - why do we feel chemistry with some people when we sleep with them and with athers we dont. i felt chemistry with this guy and now am falling for him. i think he doesnt... (34 words)

Almost 40 and still clueless...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - At my age, I should probably know the answers to these questions, but being so close to the situation has clouded my judgment and muddied the water... please be patient with me while I try to explain the situation... I married young, and after 9 years in a violent and abus... (1216 words)

She spent the whole time dancing without me. Am I right to be annoyed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I both came from relationships where we both were unfaithful. Understanding this we have trust issues. I make every effort to be mindful and respectful of her feelings to insure she is comfortable with my actions. Recently we went out with a large group and ... (77 words)

Why do I attract horrible guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I keep attracting horrible guys? what is wrong with me?:(? Am a nice sweet girl, am loyal, caring loving would never lie or cheat on my bf. Each time I meet a guy, they all seem so sweet and find me amazing and I'd think we're in love then they'd totally change ... (227 words)

Why has he changed towards me we used to be good friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i was close friends with a guy foir 2 years. i thought we got on really well but all the time i would help him with work and saved him losing his job. hes borrowed quite a lot of money-borrows the wrong word and knows i like him. we had a bad row a month ago and have barely ... (126 words)

How can I forget these images of my girlfriend with her ex's?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know how can I take my mind off things from my girlfriend. She had sex with t different guys before she met me and several times with them but now I'm with her and since she told me I really got mad. It gave me the bad picture of thinking what type or girl she is and ... (122 words)

I feel bad because I'm always saying no when he asks me out, how can I make it up to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the past week I've been really really sick like I could hardly leave my bed without assistance. My fella doesn't know how sick I've been but has asked me out 4 times and I declined due to my illness like he asked me to a chariy event, Dinner , dancing, cinema but i had to ... (81 words)

She says she cant live with me but cant live without me! What can I do to get rid of my wife's inconsistent behaviour?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married for the last 20 months . I am 28 whereas my wife is 27. 20 months back, I met her in a stadium while watching football match and I lost my heart to her within no time. In the stadium, offered her 600000 Euros to marry me as I was thinking someone else might get ... (298 words)

He's affectionate after a few drinks but when he is sober all he wants is space! Why the difference in behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (we’ve been together for a year) is very attentive and affectionate when he has had a few drinks but if I look for affection when he is sober he will pull away quickly or ask me to give him space. He is not shy or an introvert, he's actually outgoing and gets along ... (63 words)

My Boyfriend versus the guy I really like? They are friends. The other guy wants me to stay with my Bf. Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - am 19 i have been with my current boy friend for almost a year. he really loves me, and i like him too but i dont love him. i care about him. but am insecure around him, i dont like being in his company. There is another guy (guy two), he is my best friend we talk about every ... (448 words)

Has anyone ever met the one and let them get away? How do you accept it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you deal with knowing that you have lost and ruined your chance with probably someone who could of been the one for you? That gut feeling that eats inside of you, the thought of knowing you met someone so amazing, who looks and you like no other person has, kisses you ... (222 words)

Should I be worried about his reaction to our conversation about how he would feel if we broke up? And is he about to propose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Coming up to our three year anniversary... We are pretty close. The other day he said I'm the best thing that ever happened to him. Last night, we were talking about random things and I asked him the question of whether he'd be upset if I broke-up with him, would he be upset? ... (279 words)

Is my ex just being nice to try and get in my pants? I don't want to fool around with him as I still want a relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and we've just started talking again. He says he doesn't want a relationship with me anymore, but later told me he still wanted to fool around. But I still have feelings for him and still want to be in a relationship. I told him... (87 words)

My non-existent love life.....men stare at me but I'm not sure if its for the right reason! How can I improve things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all! :) i'm just wondering what to do about my current non existent love life. i get load of men staring at me but i dont know is it for the right reason. i was out a few weeks ago and i had to tell a guy to go away 13 times. i'm not bein picky but i dont drink alcohol and ... (99 words)

Broke her heart and lost her over Facebook, no excuses. But is what I did truly unforgiveable? I still love her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I Broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I sexted a girl on facebook when i was drunk. It was wrong and it was the only time it happened even though i dont remember doing it and my facebook was hacked when this was happening. Multiple sex stuff was sent to people on my fa... (755 words)

Hes been hurt in the past and now wont trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i have known this guy for a few months now and im having a few difficulties. he was hurt in the past by his father whom he once trusted, but the father abused this guys mum and his siblings. so i understand where he might falter in trusting or getting clos... (183 words)

I treated my b/f like a king, he cheated and I need to move on but I'm a mess!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of three years cheated on me. i know i did nothing wrong i treated him like a king and it still backfired.i know he has a lot of issues but none of that was an excuse for what he did. i am devastated! a complete mess. i want nothing to do with him i will not go ... (252 words)

I cheat on my boyfriend but I love him and! don't want to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheat on my boyfriend and am more uninterested then I used to be, but I love him and don't want to break up. What is wrong with me? I'm not a victim and I'm not looking for sympathy. What I have done is wrong and I have issues that I need to fix, I do not know why I act the ... (154 words)

Don't want to be married anymore...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 years and have an almost 2 year old son. I'm 24 hubby is 26. More and more for the past 2 years I have been doubting if our marriage can last. I feel like I made a huge mistake by marrying him when I did. All my teenage years I never had a boyfriend, ... (449 words)

16 year old in love with an attached 23 year old

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 year old male an I have fallen in love with my 23 year old co-worker who is dating our manager what do I do? she says she is leaving him for me when she gets her car I just need advice.... (45 words)

Is 'dry humping' morally wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - We were making out and it just happened, we're both Christians and we want to wait till marriage to have sex, but is it wrong that we dry humped and we both enjoyed it? ... (34 words)

My boyfriend's ex won't leave us alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - MY b oyfrined was with his now ex for 4 years, he cheated on me with her in our first 4 months of dateing, i found out and i had a constant battle with her fro 6 months! shed keep finding ways to contact me after i blocked every number. it got to the point where i almost filed ... (367 words)

In a rut, feeling alone and need someone to talk to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I apologize as this may be a bit long. Just a bit of info, I'm a 19 year old girl in a relationship with my bf for just about 9 months. I'm not really sure if this is a relationship question or what, but I really feel as if I have no one to talk to. I have bee... (610 words)

My boyfriend can't seem to clear the air face to face

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 6 months now. We go to school together. He is a senior and I am a junior. I am turning 18 in about 3 weeks and he just turned 17. We see each other every weekend and just hang out all day. We have an amaizing sex life.... ... (175 words)

Does anyone else ever wish they were a young child again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Anyone ever wish they could go back to being a young child?.i often wish that .do i need counselling or would you say its normal to think like that ?... (30 words)

How can I overcome the rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I suppose this is a pretty common question for this site. "How do you get over the person who rejected you?" I recently got rejected by this girl in my school. Let me tell you "our" story. So. We met at school through mutual friends,started saying "Hi... (560 words)

Does an interest in transexual porn make me gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If i get turned on my 'lady-boys' 'she-males' or whatever you want to call them does it mean i am gay? or bi?... (23 words)

How can I improve my self esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I have very low self esteem now. I've never had much self esteem anyway, but now that I'm newly single, it's plunging down to a whole new level! I feel ugly, especially. I can't help comparing myself to other women, even to my own friends, and notice that they get so many ... (204 words)

Parents seem to favour younger brother and his stepchild over me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid there is something that's been bothering me for the last couple of weeks . some days i feel like i'm ridiculous for even thinking about it . other times i feel like i'm right. yet the more i ponder about it i go back and forth in between the two so finally i ask for ... (628 words)

Considering 2 guys for a FWB relationship but should I consider either of them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About 8 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. It was really hard on me because i was really in love with him. It took me months to get over it. Now Im finally getting my life back and I feel really good. But I'm starting to miss having someone that is more than a friend... ... (385 words)