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writes:Hello,I'm a 25 year old male. I've been dating this girl for the past 3 months and things have been going great. Our sex life is absolutely fantastic as well. Yesterday, I was on her computer looking something up and I ended up looking at her history. I know this was wrong but somehow I couldn't help it. I noticed that she had visited a porn site the night before and then immediately after brought up a profile picture of one of the guys she used to sleep with. I'm obviously not so much concerned about the porn. It is one thing to fantasize about people you've never met or celebrities but when you're looking at pictures of your ex while you masturbate after you've slept me for the previous 4 nights in a row, there seems to be something off, no? Should I just keep an eye on it? I don't think confronting her would be the best option as it would start a never ended issue of trust. Please help.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (1 December 2011):
 Confront her man. However, do it with as little emotion as possible. You want a constructive conversation. Just ask her straight out, communication is a must. Ask her what was going on and do not accuse her of anything, let her explain. If she's mature she will tell the truth, if she doesnt, then, that's her ass. Get rid of her. If she fessed up, Id wouldnt hesitate to get rid of her like as you stated, trust issues. I, myself, cant live with someone who isnt honest. If you dont confront her, you may keep this in the back of your head and later it may come out in anger. Yes, anger. Address while its still fresh. Do not let it sit in contemplation. good luck.
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