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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Has anyone been with a guy aged about 36 who at best could achieve only a "fat soft" barely sufficient to manage vaginal penetration on a regular basis?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 does he drink?
does he smoke?
does he do drugs?
take any medications?
how is his blood pressure?
all these things negatively can and do affect erections.
we often can accomplish blow jobs but not penetration... it happens... sometimes extra lube helps and we use doggy style for the best penetration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): Yep. It was a psychological happening and the Dude sought therapy. Mind you, when he was fat soft, I could still acheive orgasm which made him stiffen and fill out a bit more than usual.
(he came from an abusive home where Mom shamed him during puberty and masturbation and he dated abusive women who taunted him about it) He said I helped his self esteem and felt comfortable enough to seek therapy.
Then dumped me when he could maintain a happy, healthy erection. harboured no ill feelings towards him as I got he felt he wanted to explore his new found sexuality.
;)
I find maturbation to porn has to get men who have sustained on that for a long period of time need to adjust their mindset when getting back to having an actual, real, intimate sexual relationship with a woman as well.
So again, counselling will help with all of that.
Have you thought to go to a doctors to rule out any medical issues?
Or can you maintain an erection when masturbating?
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