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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sexually Frustrated with no attention!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am seriously at a loss. . . I am 23 and my husband is 30. We used to make love ALOT. But as of this year it has gone down drastically to just once a week that barely lasts 15 minutes! I understand that he stresses about work, and he is an excellent father to our children, but ... (193 words)

Is it normal to be depressed when I can't see my boyfriend and friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I always feel sad when im not with my boyfriend and want to be with him all the time, ive just hurt my foot and been on crutches for the last week (im off them now) but i couldnt get around as much or get go anywhere without my friends, so i didnt see him as much and i felt so ... (66 words)

My guy wants me to peg him. In the meantime, how can I practice thrusting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm interested in someone but we're currently two states apart. I'm moving to his city in three weeks, however, and this has been the plan for months as I'll soon graduate college. We met AFTER I made the decision to move. At any rate, he's a 6'3" bisexual male. One of his... (193 words)

I don't believe there is a switch that just turned off his feelings. I want him back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me eleven days before our 3 year anniversary. He is currently in Korea, teaching English to Elementary school children, while I am still in America. He said he couldn't be with me because he "could not reciprocate his feelings for me." I don't believe ... (544 words)

How can I get a good paying job in the US or Canada?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone help me to get a job in the US or CANADA. i didnt study much so i can do any job as long as it pays well. please help me? thanx... (33 words)

Why is he flirting with me, his ex, when he makes out with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - if a guy would just have started a new relationship would he still be friends with his ex because she was also friends with him when she was in a relationship? also would he be flirting and try to deny the relationship? my ex makes out with a girl and I don't know if they are ... (207 words)

If he pulls out before he comes does that reduce the chance of pregnancy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok me and my boyfriend was talking about if we have sex and he pulls out before the semen comes out does that reduce the possibility of me getting pregnant ? Haha sorry about how I ask the question I just really didn't know how to put it ... (49 words)

Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering about female statistics, something me and my partner were talking about. Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners? For example, my partner (I've asked her permission to write ... (112 words)

Do married women ever regain their sex drives once it's lost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Before we got married, my wife and I had been in an on and off relationshipo for quite a few years, and we had initially had sex frequently. She wanted it constantly, and we often had sex several times a day. having sex. Her interest in sex seemed to fall off, and she ... (427 words)

I'm in love with my teacher and can't stop thinking about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hallo, I am afraid I am in love with my teacher. he is 30 and I am in love with him for 1 and a half year.i can not stop thinking about him.He is so pretty, sexay ... I found out that he likes a girl of my schoolvery much.Not many people know this and my teacher would ne... (133 words)

I'm feeling torn between two guys...not officially with either, but why do I feel so guilty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so torn at the moment. Basically i have been seeing this guy unofficially for the last 10 months. He has trust issues due to his last two ex gf's cheating on him. I really have fallen for him, but he is keeping distant from me and not letting himself get too in love with ... (213 words)

I'm not sure how I feel about dating someone who has children, but I already am in that situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 24 and my boyfriends 36. we have been together for 2 years and like every relationship have had our ups and downs. He has a 12 year old daughter who is real nice girl. We live in New York and her mom lives in Florida. This Thanksgiving I spent with his f... (168 words)

I'm tired of everyone saying how much my son looks like his dad, my ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure if anyone can help but I have a 17 month old little boy, I split from his dad 9 months ago after he cheated on me with my friend. My ex doesn't bother with my little boy. I have had a tough time has you can imagine and it is fair to say that it has took some getting to ... (256 words)

I want to go to the gym but there are too many guys and I'm afraid they will stare at me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i have really been wanting to go to the gym so many times its not far from where i stay and though there are not so many equipments a few of the ones i need are there but my only problem is that im shy the gym is mostly attended by guys I don't see girls an... (135 words)

He only likes me 'average'? What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really like this guy in my school and i dont know if he likes me but he knows i like him. i asked him if he likes me and he said he does but his liking is only average. what do you think that could mean? Also we fought like a week or so back and now we're not talkin... (97 words)

Feeling increasingly lonely in this marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel like my husband has gone off me i feel loneley we hardly ever make love we usually have sex which lasts about 5 mins on a saturday its always the same position and he has taken speed i feel like he has changed so much and i cant cope anymore i love him so much i want t... (143 words)

Tired of his games but don't want to let him go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m sick of my man playing stupid games with me but I love him too much to let him go. He flirts with other girls, and it only suits him when we meet. One of my friends suggested I get my own back. He said that I should Ban Sex, ignore him at times and I should flirt with other ... (144 words)

Question on genetic testing...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering ,if anybody familiar with genetic testing? Does it really work? There is serious mental problems in my family, and I want to see , if there is anything shows up, as a genetic explanation. Does genetic testing shows any predisposition to mental illness? Also, ... (84 words)

Colourblind test

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys need help-not romantic stuff but please help me as your advice is really cool and appreciated. Hey guys sorry to disturb but i need help-very worried got an opportunity to apply for a highly paid job but need to do a colourblind test. I'm worried because for my c... (109 words)

Is he worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey... Basically, I've liked this guy for about a year now, and he knows I like him. At first, i thought my infatuation would go away, but it hasn't. I don't want to like him, because he is really perverted, and asks me to send him pictures and sexts ect, but i don't want to ... (183 words)

My boyfriend keeps hinting for money.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

26 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps asking for money indirectly. He would say my mom is not giving me money we can't date. Or he would go directly like 'can i ask you something? No leave it'. If I say tell me he would ask me. I mean I am not so rich. I don't have a job. I am a student. What am ... (70 words)

Does he simply need space or doesn't he want to be with me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone... I have a bit of a problem :\ me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year, at the beginning of our relationship we used to spend a lot of alone time together which was lovely. Now after nearly a year he doesn't seem to want to anymore, I understa... (220 words)

What is wrong? I feel I'm closing myself off from others. I can not understand why this is happening.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just don't know what's wrong with me.For a while now,I've felt so down,tired and so very,very sad.There's no reason for it,nothing's happened to me.I'm just so sad. I feel like closing myself off to everyone and just disappearing into my own world.It's hard to get excited ... (88 words)

How can I get him to keep things on a professional level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age - A tradesman has completed several renovating jobs for me for over the last two years. He sometimes has his teenage son with him to assist him. He is trustworthy and reliable. The very few times I have spoken to him have been just before I have gone to work or when he is quoti... (389 words)

Does he like me or not? If anyone could give any suggestions please feel free, as I'm stumped

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I havent used this site in a while now but here goes, i started a new job in september and everything is going good. I have made some new friends which is always a bonus :) but there is this one guy we'll call R, he's really shy but he's good looking and witty and always v... (250 words)

How can I bring my girlfriend to a climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ii there! So I've been seeing this girl whom i am madly in love with but she won't let me take her to full climax. I'm avg sized and I do make her have a g spot O but she says it gets too sensitive and pushes me off before she gets to full climax. She has had bigger in the past ... (91 words)

Three year LDR. It's not working. Should I tell him how I am feeling now, or wait until I get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my long distance partner for 3 years. I am travelling overseas and planning to live with him when I get back. But I don't believe in our relationship anymore. I care for him and want him to be happy. I do love him, but we have barely kept in touch and I have b... (332 words)

I have hero worshipped him for years.Shall I just give up before making a fool of myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always been friendly with a man 10 years older than me. I really wish he would see me as more than a friend. He is a single parent with a mixed race son. That is not be a problem to me. When I first got to talk proper with him, he did say he would never date a white girl... (172 words)

I love him. How do I cope with him? Or even move on from my married boy friend, who cheated on me, AGAIN?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello aunts, i am still obsessed with my married boy friend who cheated on me 3 months ago. Since then i have been living in tears as i love him so much. I know he is bad, but i cannot make up my mind. He cheated on me even before and i forgave him. I know he will never be... (73 words)

How did he get over our relationship so quickly ? He broke off with me and three weeks later was in a new relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in a relationship for a year with a guy that i was sure i was going to marry. we were talking about getting engaged and looking at rings and everything.well,about 6 months into the relationship,we started arguing about different issues,mostly about my daughter(who is not ... (261 words)

How can I avoid an Arranged Marriage? I do not wish it to go ahead. What should be my actions and behaviour in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am getting married as per my parents wish to a guy who is a liar, unattractive, no mannerisms, hypocrite, etc. Worst I get shivering spine when I think I will have to go to bed with him, for which he is eagerly waiting. He thinks himself very over smart and feels he is doing... (122 words)

He's controlling. How can I get him to not control my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - X is someone I recently met. He's fun to talk to and we started seeing each other more often. We hung out for a few week and really liked each other. When he was younger he never had a serious relationship except one for 6 months. All the other girls were "for fun" but neve... (213 words)

Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago. Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk. so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before and he said he regret. if t... (180 words)

Inside, I identify myself as a woman-I'm confused! How can I find someone who understands me as I really am?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

26 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so new at this. Not sure if this question qualifies for this site but here goes anyways. Basically I'm 34 years old and on the inside I Identify as female. So transgender I guess. When I was younger I ad lots of accepting friends. Long blond hair and was quite pretty ... (160 words)

I wanted to ask his advice on getting a tattoo. But he didn't want to know. Is he just being mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this guy and everything seemed Like it was going good until today . I texted him and told him I was watching this movie and he said lol I have fun and then I told him it's weird and I need his help he said wish I could help you? Is he saying i... (112 words)

Am I wasting my time? I really love him and I don't want to get over him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi So I like this guy and I've liked him nearly all year and I asked him out about 4 weeks ago.. He said no because he wasn't ready for a girlfriend but he liked me as well.. Liked me more than any other girl.. My bestfriend asked him if he still liked me a few days a go nd... (247 words)

I see myself as a good guy-but is it possible that I'm a "ladies's man"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do I sound like a "Ladies Man" to you? I'm very attracted to girls, I know how to treat a girl, are my best friends. I'm a sweetheart and get along with everyone. I never had a girlfriend before and I believe I can make a girl feel comfortable around me. I'm mature, funny, s... (104 words)

I'm not good at showing my feelings. I thought we had a connection Did I give him the impression I didn’t want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this man out in a bar in the city (5 hours from where I live) one night 5 months ago and we exchanged numbers after really hitting it off. He had to leave at one stage to go to a works party for a few hours but we agreed to meet up again and all go on to somewher... (500 words)