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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Want to take pride in being myself and increasing my self esteem. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had self esteem issues since the age of about 12, and even though they have improved i still get so down about them and convince myself alot of the time "i'm not good enough". It doesn't really help that there are few people in my life who do think i am good enough. ... (298 words)

Unexpected feelings have hit me hard!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

23 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, my neighbor girl basically pursued me, I felt no attraction of any sort for her in the beginning(except for she was hot), but her persistence, and her cute way, eventually started getting to me without me even knowing, she is 20, im 34, she is bratty, and deceitful, and I ... (345 words)

Why is my girlfriend acting like this, and what do I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and I've had 4 or 5 girlfriends in the past for a few months. At the moment I am with a girl a month and a half, this is the first time I've felt fully in love. I've said I've loved other girls but me and this girl just click. We now EVERYTHING about each other and can ... (477 words)

I took a risk and I think I messed it up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so there's this guy. :) I haven't really noticed him until the day I caught him staring at me. Since then, I've turned into a complete different. I do things to make him notice me like walk more in front of him and stare at me (sounds weird). Yesterday I found out that my ... (169 words)

He's cheated on me, disrespected me, ignoring me, telling me I'm smothering him.... but I want to be with him forever! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Okay let's get straight to the point. My boyfriend of 2 years and some cents has been constantly ignoring me, very much lack of communication, hasn't been showing me any kind of attention, when i come around, he acts like he doesn't want me around..he said i be ... (126 words)

Involved with a married man and need unbiased thoughts, please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, Please take the time to read: I met my boyfriend of almost two years (in December) online by chance. I actually caught his attention and made the first move, but we took a lot of time to get to know each other as friends first before developing a cyber-sexual rel... (600 words)

We can never plan anything but his ex can!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a really small question that is out of my depth so wanted ppls opinions please! My fella and I have been together 4 months. He has children with his ex and we have made sure that everything stays exactly the same (ie..he takes them footballing, having them every weeke... (232 words)

How do I word this card so we can continue a professional relationship with the goal of getting to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age - A mutual attraction developed between me and a work colleague. I have now left the company but occasionally contact this guy on business level. I would like to send him an xmas card and suggesting that we link up as I would like to see him as a friend and use him for career a... (134 words)

Was my text confusing or a turn off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I met this guy and we went out twice. He texted me last sunday and said let's meet up this week (meaning before friday, he will be traveling during the we) and go out for drinks. I replied (trying to not pressure him): Perfect I have to see other people too so te... (116 words)

Is the past just the past or does it come along into the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My ex was cheating on me because he believed and still believe that I was doing things behind his back. I forgave him, though he asked me to make an end, for if it were the contrary, he had never taken me back. Week passed, and he began to behave strange. He was mean, I ... (355 words)

Question for men: Why do guys tell all women they date the same lines?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question for any men that happen to read this. Why do some guys tell every single woman they are involved with the same exact lines, the same exact stories, and act the same way? I recently got in touch with three of my boyfriend's ex girlfriends, and they all told me ... (619 words)

If I ignore him completely, will he miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice... i broke up with my bf 6 months ago and after a while, i totaly regreted it... (although i had really good reasons to do it) i have to admit that ever since we broke up, i never really left him alone... i'd text him, and call him... normally, he'd an... (182 words)

I'm 27 and never had a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. im a 27 year old guy, moved to a new area which is 200 miles away fron where i am orginally for a new job. and its really nice here. i like my job and the people i work with, its really good money and ive started playing rugby again so starting to meet new people. ... (288 words)

Is a 30 year old man too old for a girl of 19?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met a guy in April met at a nightclub he was 24 we hit it off got together but within about a month weird things started uhappening he kept having serious accidents I couldn't get thru to his phone he could only call me he claimed it was a bad signal problem we had sex ... (298 words)

I can't stop thinking about my ex even thought he cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused as what to do even though i know the right way to go. I can't stop thinking bout my ex, i love him so much and don't know why. He's cheated, treat me like crap and eventually kicked me out of his house. I've never put a foot wrong and love him dearly. I've never ... (257 words)

What is up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Please help me. I am a 34 year old single female. There's a guy whom I've known for 2 years. I have never seen him in real. He is an elder brother of a friend of mine. I have seen my friend not this guy. he was working overseas and we have talked through skype. he i... (407 words)

I just want to be loved. Am I asking too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Really upset at the moment and really need some advice. I was in an 8 year relationship with my now ex, we had three children together, but broke up due to his alcohol addiction and temper. Anyway i went trough alot of stuff with my ex and i vowed never to be second best aga... (355 words)

I need some conversation tips!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a kinda shy guy,but i have a couple of female friends,i kinda find it difficult to start convesations..but there's this girl that is a friend to my friend(female)...we both belong to the same department in college.we only talk whenever she's with my friend.now we're r on ... (81 words)

Do I tell my g/f I've cheated on her multiple times?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now. Things were great. We even talked about and planned wedding stuff. I had no doubts the she was the one. It was truly amazing. Here's the first thing. I've cheated on her multiple times with six different girls in... (436 words)

I need to wow him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and i are usually amazing, especially in bed. I just feel like he's slowing down and getting bored. Not a good thing at all ladies! I need help, I need to wow him for a couple nights and get his mind up and running again.... (47 words)

TMJ and blowjobs, is that even possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I was just sitting in my room, thinking about ways to please my boyfriend, when I realized that with TMJ (Temperal Mandibular Joint, pretty much the right side of my jaw is messed up and I cant open my mouth very wide), I'm pretty limited in terms of blowjobs! So I'm... (144 words)

How can I get over my love for her and remain friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

23 November 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I think I'm in love with one of my friends. She's the coolest girl I've ever met. Of all people on earth, no one understands me as well as she does. I also understand her very deeply; I know many of her flaws and virtues, and I still adore her for who she is. I know that if we ... (239 words)

We've dumped each other and now people are asking questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 16 and a few months ago i cheated on my boyfriend with another guy from school. later on i heard he had cheated on me and i dumped him. some of the story got out and now everyone is asking question about what really happened. should i tell the truth or should i lie?... (55 words)

Boosting my self-esteem

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Does anyone have any tips to boost my self esteem I feel like my self esteem is really low I feel sad,confused all that other bad stuff can someone please help me? Thank you.... (34 words)

If he can't do this much, what does it say about how he really feels about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is on probation. He doesn't know I have a deadline in mind for him to really show me that he loves me. We HAVE talked, numerous times and I am always in control of myself and rational and non-accusing. He has had a "meh" attitude in the past and I can't waste my ... (304 words)

I am ashamed of dating my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Basically, I am ashamed of myself for dating someone as horrible as my ex was. He is now a heavy drug user and dropped out of college. He still tries to reach out to me and asks for friendship but I decline as I'm currently in a relationship. He's pretty delusional, alwa... (182 words)

Is this headed towards a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a little under a month ago and I really like him. He's made it clear that he doesn't want a serious relationship but he constantly tells me how much he likes me and cares for me and is always showering me with compliments and affection. We started sleeping toge... (305 words)

Marriage stereotypes....

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - After having heard some comments last night, and searching the web a bit for answers, I have this question, and would like to hear different inputs. The topic is marriage, and it appears to me that there are certain stereotypes out there. As a woman, whenever I say I w... (514 words)

How can I stop these sexual feelings towards my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 19 years old girl , I loved my teacher since i was 14 , everyone said it was a crush but it was not , i couldn't understand why i loved her , i was crazy about her , loved school just because of her , my teacher loved me also she exepted my love to her because i had t... (644 words)

Career vs Love - what comes first?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What's more important? • a career that pays $10k more than you currently earn... With greater responsibility and pressure. Or... • being in a loving relationship, building your own home and having a future with somebody that loves you? Your wages together are above the a... (49 words)

He hit me, but I still think about him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here it goes... I am a 21-year-old, single mother at this point. My current ex is the father of my child. In the beginning of our relationship, he was kind, caring, sweet, loving and good to me. However, we did have our problems. I cheated on him and he cheated on me, but... (324 words)

How can I be more confident and stop these negative thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - have not had the best time in terms of my confidence and negative thoughts etc. but, alot of good positive things have happened over the past year or so that have changed my mindset/made me feel good/learn alot about myself a bit. I am at a stage now where I am greatly ... (147 words)

Why do I feel so depressed and sick at times? What can I do to overcome this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please help any advice or if you know why im feeling like this etc, but i have had drepression on and off and this year felt worse to the point of going to the doctor and i now see a counsellor which is good. im not working and living at home but i feel the reason im not ... (232 words)

I'm confused if he likes me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy at my job he always said hey to me. And one day he asked out for coffee now is that a date?or what so i went and told a few of my coworkers and one of my coworkers asked him he asked me on a date (i never thought she would say anything) so now he probably ... (230 words)

Does anyone agree with "everything happens for a reason"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering, do you believe in the phrase "everything happens for a reason". I am finding it hard to believe at the moment. I applied for my dream job (a promotion), got an interview... Everything was going well. The panel knew me, gave me good feedback. But I didn't get... (221 words)

My body failed to respond to my ex boyfriend's caressing.what is wrong with me.am I over him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hai everyone.my ex and i have been broken up for six months.it was a bad breakup (he cheated on me),so i broke up with him.but i have forgiven him.well he asked me back and he has shown me signs that he wants this to work,but i don't know what i want.we stay in the same area so ... (232 words)

I have periods where I feel insecure about things. Should I seek help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Basically, I tend to go through periods where I am extremely sensitive about things. When i reflect on it, i dont really have cause to feel the way I do but for some reason I do. I am normally content, energetic and loving life. I've never been the most confident person s... (398 words)

Girlfriend thinks I'm checking out girls when I'm not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need serious help with my girlfriend she constantly thinks I'm checking out girls when I'm not Even if I do I don't ogle and do it rudely She thinks that's it's a sign that I don't love her that I don't want to be with her that And her friend was involved in the argument... (383 words)

Fiance broke up with me out of the blue, without any explanation, and has been ignoring me completely!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so about 3 1/2 months ago my ex fiance broke up with me. It was very devastating for me because that same day we were talking about our wedding plans, laughing, and joking around when he just came out of nowhere and decided to end the relationship. We have not seen each ... (171 words)

I'm confused.. do I stay with him or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am been seeing a guy for about 2 1/2 years but we have never been in touch all 12 months, he has health issues but wont let me be there for him, right know its been 10 months since we saw each other and have only im ed on yahoo 3 times, his birthday is tommorrow and im not ... (137 words)

Did this seem like an unreasonable question to ask him? Why did he not reply?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello All, I recently started a relationship with a guy and both of us were very nervous about getting into a relationship. After talking a lot about many things like previous relationships, family, friends, ect. and a few sleep overs without sex, we decided we wanted to be ... (516 words)

We're in a long distance relationship, how can I show her she's not alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is telling me that she feels alone. We are in a long distance relationship and I'm trying my best to be communicate with her. What should I do? She's also been picked on by people who used to be her friends as well could that be another factor?... (50 words)

Obviously he still finds me attractive but I'm not sure what he wants.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think this guy still likes me ? I bumped into him recently in a pub in town.we used to be seeing each other for about 2 months.my mum was with me when i bumped into him but she bought a drink for him and left us alone to talk.we didnt have a discussion at the time we ... (328 words)

Finally decided to take control over my health but people around me are not helping!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I was wondering if you could help with with an issue I have been having. I have finally decided to take control over my health, and wish to start eating much better, exercising, with the goal of getting fitter and losing weight. However, I find that it is nearly i... (205 words)

How can I make this easier? I feel empty and alone when I'm not with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have a 4 month old daughter together. we have been with each other every day for 3 months. we see each other every day, but when i'm not with him i miss him and want to be with him i feel empty and alone. how can i make this easier... (57 words)

My friend created a fake profile to trap my long distance B/f, when she realized he too had a dating profile. I'm upset at both of them. What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on a situation with my friend and my Long Distance boyfriend. My friend created an account on a site to meet friends that she found my long distance boyfriend had an account on. She didn't tell me or ask me before doing this, so I had no idea. Anyway... (217 words)

How can I make sex feel as good as masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Since I was 3 or 4, before I even knew anything about sex, I've performed a type of masturbation where I'm on either my side or my belly with my legs crossed and rub myself aggressively with both hands. I'm 18 now and still do it. It feels fantastic, but I can't get the same ... (175 words)

I'm not familiar with him yet. So do you think my options to make him notice me will work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy who im not so familiar with yet, and would like to get to know him better. Tomorrow is his birthday and I was thinking about using the opportunity to wish him happy birthday on facebook in a special way. Should I send him my birthday greeting as a private ... (104 words)

I love her but she is destroying my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long story, but here goes. I'm a girl, and I've been with my partner, also a girl, for a year and a half. After about 3 months of bliss I found out she'd been messaging another girl behind my back, telling her she loved her and that she'd end it with me etc. I o... (1373 words)

New young crush. How am I doing so far? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so I've been crushing on this guy for a while. a sophomore guy (as i am a freshman). we only have classes together on Fridays, and were pretty much inseparable at that time. but any other time, we just pass each other by. this Friday was a bit of a different story.... (469 words)

How can I deep throat and swallow cum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have recently begun giving my boyfriend blow jobs. He really loves it when I swallow, and I enjoy doing it for him. However, I hate the taste so I always try to make sure that he cums in the back of my throat. The problem is... when I do that, it tends to make ... (120 words)

I like his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok were do i start... so i really like this guy (Joe) who i met through his brother (Kevin)! but i know his brother likes me! iv known Kevin through-out school but only really just became proper friends but we have kissed twice which was a mistake... but now meeting his brother ... (114 words)

Has my friend lost it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

23 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy friend has been dating this girl ten years younger who's really immature. I think he's all caught up in his ego being that she's so much younger. I think he should be with someone grounded and more mature especially since he's got a kid. He's been saying to me that he ... (136 words)