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writes:Me and my mate "charlie" were at his house one night and i got up in the morning went to have a shower however he did not realize and walk in on me in the shower, we were were both naked and both got erections. After this we went to his room and made out for ages and eventually one thing lead to another and we had sex. This happend 5 days ago, we have not spoken since then but i really want to talk about it with him abd perhaps even do it again! I just need some advice on what i should do! Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): Thanks for all the advice guys and girls, we have now talked and have entered a relationship with one another! My lofe has now improvrd so much! Thanks again guys!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (13 December 2011):
 how long do you normally go without speaking to each other? is five days pretty normal.
it may take time for him to process this situation and to recongnise what his true feelings are.
can you go round to his house and see if he is in then play it from there. if he wants to talk then talk but if he avoids it i reckon another situation like this will crop up as you were both sober so it seems like the hard ons were how you really felt arousal wise (with drink straight men can turn gay while drunk only to revert when sober).
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2011): The problem with the world is that unfortunantly there is still a lot of stigma around homosexuality which isn't helped by your age, mabye your friend want's to do it again with you but is simply afraid because of what others might say or do. Speaking from personal experience at your age people start to experiment with their sexuality and plenty of straight people experiment with people of the same sex. therefore i would advise that you do need to talk to him. You need to know where you stand and you both need to get an understanding for how and what it is your feeling. The best of luck buddy...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2011): You need to talk to him. You both obviously felt attracted to each other, but being same sex it may be possible your mate is confused also.
Ask him to meet up sometime and see how he feels. Be prepared that he may be confused,but on the other hand he may be keen to do it all again so take it day by day and enjoy it!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (1 December 2011):
 You guys need to talk and find out where you both go on from here.
Why dont you msg him and ask to meet up? see what he replies with and take it from there about whether to continue the sexual relationship or not.
Hope this helps!
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