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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife made out with another woman when I was not there. Should I be mad? Worried? Turned on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife made out with another woman at a Halloween party. Should I be jealous, mad? We have talked about fantasies involving a 3 some from time to time over the years. A few times, during sex, we have even talked about her doing something with another girl while I watched. I ... (154 words)

How to play the player ?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks... (47 words)

B/f could give me a little more security by texting me but he doesn't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - He says he loves me. He told me to ask him for anything I needed in this relationship. The ONE thing I have asked of him is to text me throughout the day/night (we work different shifts), just so that I know he thinks about me. I didn't ask for immediate replies to my ... (297 words)

Is boyfriend avoiding seeing me because he was up to no good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and we usually see each other 3-4 times a week. I last saw him 10 days ago when we made plans for the following weekend. That Friday he went out on the town with the boys for a leaving do from work. I was due to see him the next ... (265 words)

I'd like to be the one to start the spark for a change. How can I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a good bisexual friend (and by friend I mean we see each other almost every day at university, we go out to movies, concerts, parties, we talk about what's going on in our lives and in general we like hanging out together) with whom I've hooked up several times (no ... (424 words)

Is he playing me around, or actually interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, thanks to everyone who helps me out on this. Im sorry it may be long, im gunna try make it quick and have all the vital details in aswell. Ok i am having a super hard time trying to analyse this guys intentions. I met a guy on facebook (he lives in the same ci... (1047 words)

I already have trust issues and now my younger boyfriend wants a threesome!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a livein relationship for 15mths now. I ham 43 my boyfriend is 28. He now wants a 3sum, him, me and another girl. At first I wanted to please him but have since told him that I was worried about the following 1 I couldn't have it happen in my home, I'm a... (331 words)

Should I leave my partner for my education?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with this girl for more than a year now, we met via post secondary and I am deeply in love with her. I feel like I want her to be my wife in the future. She has aspirations for med school which she is most likely getting in come next september, and I am becoming a ... (187 words)

Guys, do you freak out like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is a huge generalized question, but how long does it really take a guy to decide what he's doing in a relationship? We've been exclusive for a year. There are things we understand about each other that neither of us thought anyone could. I adore him and I know he ... (152 words)

I feel burdened by my friends problems, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know it might seem a bit ironic me asking this question, but i'll ask anyway :P Basically, some of my friends are going through some rough times, mostly with girls and stuff like that. Things haven't been working out for them, so obviously they want to talk abou... (224 words)

I said I loved him, he responded with I like you, I'm confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and mt bf have been goin out for almost a year now he takes care of me he is nice kind genleman gives me wat i want all the time but oneday i asked him how he felt about me. i doubt since he was giving money and paying for my phone bills and all that i said do u love me ... (138 words)

A good screen name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need a good screen name .. I'm kinda like a closet emo, like people call me emo but I haven't admitted it. Any suggestions .. please no hate. And just for the record I am in no way a wannabe, trust me I know 1 who just copied me.... (54 words)

I think he likes another girl, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help ASAP!! I am ina relationship with this boy lets call him "Skylar". I love him a lot and things had been going great until recently. He is kind of a ladies man, girls love him, of course he doesnt return the feelings. Well lately my friends have been telling me ... (229 words)

What can I do, if others are wrecking your life, but you are way to close to them to leave them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F) age - How do you know what is wrecking your life,if it's not you? Who is able to tell you, what did you do wrong, or why is you life full of problems, if it doesn't depend on you?. I mean, some problems are easy, like you made bad choices, like drugs drinking cheating etc, and than ... (267 words)

What are the signs sex is good for a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Just curious to get some answers from men. If sex is good...I mean REALLY good with a woman,how can us women know it was good without the guy directly telling us? What are the signs? I've learned a lot of the time guys don't directly tell you....although some do,or they do once ... (100 words)

The last thing I want to be is needy and moany!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 6 months now, and everything's going great. I'm 27, he's 39. Here's my problem- I can't stop wanting reassurance from him... My last boyfriend- who I was absolutely, 100% crazy in love with hurt me REALLY badly, by cheati... (104 words)

He's sending me mixed signals! Does he even like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I need some help with this problem that I'm having involving a boy that I like. Well, it all started last year, I noticed this boy that I thought was very attractive. I never talked to him, but I'd secretly crush on him. So, about 2 months ago I gathered the courage ... (397 words)

I can not handle any more "groupies." Is it him? Or am I a psycho?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship that makes me feel super insecure. I was never ever insecure like this in my life. I was never a jealous person either. Even when I was younger. I am not sure if it is me or my partner. Woman are going after him as crazy. When I met him I did not think ... (496 words)

How do I apologize for not going to the party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to apologise to this girl i know, but i'm not sure what to say to her. She invited me to her grandad's birthday pary a few months ago her grandad is my sister in law's dad, and this girl is my sister in law's niece ).I said i would go at first, but it turned out that ... (368 words)

Am I better off going solo, or should I keep my eyes open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been doing some thinking and I'm really wondering if I am better off alone. This has nothing to do with the fact that I'm just a teenager or that I am too pessimistic. I do want to have a girlfriend, and all that stuff though; I'm just beginning to think that after being ... (197 words)

After giving me a gorgeous ring, we had some difficult times and he has never mentioned marriage again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello. I am a single mother of two who has had a boyfriend of five years. At the beginning he proposed to me with a georgous ring. We then went through some bad times with him strongly wanting me to abort our baby saying wrong time. I went through with it and now it seems as ... (73 words)

Every time I need to talk to my boyfriend about an issue regarding our relationship he gets defensive and concludes that I have my period.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - It seems that every time I need to talk to my boyfriend about an issue regarding our relationship he gets defensive and concludes that I have my period. I now feel that should I have something I want to discuss with him on a serious note, that he will immediately sum up that ... (188 words)

How do I get my husband to allow me to see my friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm coming to you all to see if I can get a few opinions on my marriage. Recently I have come to notice a few things happening. I had asked if I could go and see my friend that is about an hour drive from where I am. He said no, that it wasn't proper for a women to go places ... (275 words)

This girl keeps posting weird and random comments on his facebook wall.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this girl on my new boyfriends (he is also way at school in a different state at the moment) facebook she keeps posting weird and random comments for example " hey,do you still love me ?" and " hey boo , i miss you i hope we can hang when you come back at Christmas " ... (103 words)

I like her immensely, but she turned down a friend with "I'm not ready to date anyone." Should I try anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys,I'm kinda in a bind any advice would be great as I can't talk to friends about this. So there's this girl,I like her immensely,I think about her several different times every day,I txt her good morning and goodnight most every day. We have almost everything in co... (382 words)

After he walked out, I joined a dating site and when he found out, he dumped me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend (ex now) had an argument,and as normal he walked out. The day after I joined a dating site. Only a day I know, but we was not together. He has found out and now dumped me. Its the longest we have ever broke up. He says he does not want to be with me because ... (83 words)

What do you think she meant by "and modest"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll make this very short... I said. "I may not be a great doctor(I'm really not a doctor),but I'm a pretty super guy. Her response "and modest". Now I know the meaning of the word,but man I'm prolly reading way into this...but she knows I really like her,and that ... (85 words)

Does not texting mean lack of caring?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been with my boyfriend for only 3 months, but it's a really meaningful relationship. I have an excellent judge of character and I now he isn't playing games with me. So I've voiced to him a couple times the importance to me of letting me know at night and in the morning ... (149 words)

We argued, and now he wont reply to my texts and I can't get in contact with him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an argument 3 days ago with my boyfriend of 3 years. It was such a stupid little argument, so supid that i don't see the point in writing it here. After the argument, he walked away and went home. I texted him soooo many times telling him to forget about it but he ... (184 words)

He's cheated on me 5 times, and broke up with me, but I want him back because I love him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles. Well i'm having a very hard time moving on from this guy i really love, care about and wanna be with but he broke up with for a very stupid reason. This isn't the first nor the second nor the third time i've been in this situation with this ... (343 words)

Dating a man with no confidence!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! I'm unofficially seeing this man. And it's the "unofficial" stamp that prevents me from telling my friends about it, so that's why Im on here instead of asking them for advice. The man I am dating is an insecure one. He has little confidence and was certain ... (851 words)

I want to meet up with her, but we didn't meet on a dating site. Am I reading too much into her being nice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have been talking to a girl on a penpal site and she seems really nice and I was considering after a bit more talking to ask about meeting up. The problem is, she says that people seem to just message her saying things about her being'hot' and 'would you go ou... (137 words)

I did all the housework at first, then we had a baby, and now he wont help out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive lived with my husband for 8 years. We had our first child this year. I work full time and so does he. Before we had a child, I did all of the housework, yardwork, clothes and dinner myself with no help. Now that we have a baby, I have very very politely and kindly been ... (267 words)

Could he be cheating? I'm Confused and need advice about his behavioral changes, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I have been in this relationship for 4 yrs now. Everything has been going well. But last week while doing laundry I noticed some staining if you will in my man's undies. Ok I know that doesn't mean much, it can happen. But then one of his underwear is gone. I know there was ... (285 words)

I want to be the girl he fell in love with. What to do now, after messing things up completely?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for some advice from all of you. So far I have used this forum quite a few times and got very sound advice. Thank you! My LD boy friend and I had a massive fall out last night. So much so that he said if I carried on it was over. During our relaionship I ha... (515 words)

How will I know which among the two women in my life is the one I love and right for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I had been on a 9 year relationship with my girlfriend A and we were planning to get married. We were not living together, by the way. Because of this fact of getting married, I decided that I wanted to fool around with somebody else B just to experience "it". All is well f... (397 words)

He's acting distant. please advise me on what to do and don't do in order for him to make our plans of reuniting come true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend of 4 years just left a month ago for a job abroad.. i don't have complaints against him while he was still here with me because most of the time we get along so well. i always tell him that i am so happy having him..before he left, we have plans of migrating abro... (333 words)

Why can't I get over my husband's cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Why cant I get over my husband's cheating on me and joining internet dating sites during a 5 year period? I have been to marr counselling with him and to my own counselling but this still haunts me almost everyday even though it has been 2 and half years since I found ou... (243 words)

What do I take my father in law's comments to mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently told my father-in-law (in a state of despair and hurt and expecting some empathy) about his son's (my husband) cheating on me with different women. Father-in-law's response was that I was not the only woman to have been hurt. Does his response mean that he him... (122 words)

I can't see myself being someone's girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't see myself being someone's girlfriend, even when I'm in a relationship. I'm confident about my looks, the problem is something internally makes me feel "it's not me to be in a relationship." I very much like the idea of relationships though. On my own I feel sexy, ... (133 words)

Does she mean she doesn't want to talk to me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl about three weeks ago. I hungout with her two days after we met. Anyways, we talked alot the first week. We were both flirty and I could tell we both liked each other. She slept over the next weekend and we had a good night. The next few days we talked a good ... (222 words)

Could losing your virginity kick start your period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

2 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend of 2 years (yes, we used protection), and it all went quite well. I felt no pain and had no bleeding the actual night we had sex, but the day after (yesterday) I had a fair amount of bleeding which has continue... (111 words)