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writes:Do you think this man still likes me ?. I saw him when i was out with another guy. I'm not dating the guy that i was out with. We have only just met, so we are friends, but i don't know if anything else will happen. This man asked if the guy i was out with was my boyfriend. He asked that a few times. When a man asks if someone is your boyfriend, does that mean they are interested ?. He asked if he was a friend or a relative though as well. He kept saying that he thinks the world of me too. I also asked that man if he will be out again soon and he said " i will if you will be out too ", and i told him that i will be out on Sunday, and he said he will too, and told me to go in the bar where i saw him tonight then, and said he will be there . I noticed he was staring at me when i was talking to the guy i was out with too, and he went home early, so i'm wondering if he left because i was out with the other guy, or if he was going to go home anyway. I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2011): I think thats a nice thing to say.Because you got the wrong person,i doubt anyone will answer this now,so thanks.Guess i'll have to post it another time,perhaps somewhere else.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 December 2011):
 ...And he says too " I think the world of you "?..Man, do they have a limited choice of compliments where you live :).
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2011): Sorry Cindy.That isnt the guy i was talking about.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (17 December 2011):
Uh-uh,OP, play fair. Tell it like it is. Do you want real, sensible advice, or do you just want to be encouraged and reassured ? Because if you want real advice you should include the relevant background info that you have omitted. The way you have written this post, you are steering the Aunts to say : Mmm, well, sure, maybe he is interested, give it some time, or ask him out etc. etc.
But, I remember your previous posts and you have omitted some relevant details . Let's skip the part about he not being the best possible match for you ( a chronically underemployed lush twice your age, if I remember correctly ? ) But,right, that's not really the point, if you like him you like him ,period. What's more important is what happened, i.e. , that he and you dated for a very short while months ago, then one day he just pulled a Houdini on you and vanished from your radar. ( Oh and he wasn't very nice to you for the short time you were dating, didn't he embarass you with a public scene about buying him drinks or something ? ) ... When you met him by chance later on ,he just gave you some bullshit vague stories all based on " I think the world of you, it's not you it's me, blah blah " ... but then he never called you or contacted you in any form . You met him again in a pub, and he gave you some lame compliments just because your Mum was buying him drinks,- then he left. And then too you had put your hopes up and were wondering /hoping "maybe he still likes me " and.... here we go again. This way it can go on forever ! He's stringing you along, and blandly flirting with you because you approach him first and he senses YOUR interest ( no doubt he is flattered ) , but, objectively, OP, does he act and talk like someone who misses you or regrets what could have been between you ?...
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