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30-35,
*ofialoren
writes:I have fancied this guy in university for a year now and although we haven't talked much through the year, we went on a dinner date a couple of days ago.We got a bit drunk after dinner and I went back to his and we kissed and cuddled all night. He kept kissing me on my forehead and hair and generally we were spooning all night. It was absolutely lovely. The next day he initiated contact twice through texts and facebook. Today his status says he's going out and I feel bad that he hasn't invited me out or replied to a text I sent him in this morning.I later found him online on facebook and he apologized for not texting back, he said he was busy with his work. We chatted for a bit and then I said 'see you around sometime' (it is end of term now and we are going home) and he didnt reply and went offline.I don't understand really why he is acting this way. We had a lovely dinner and generally a lovely time and now he's acting this way. He seemed really nice too :(Anyway we have a month of university now, do you think we will meet next term? He did say in the morning that he would like to meet up next term and that we couldnt this term, because they were three days left and all our essays and tests to do.Given the time constraints and the amount of work we had to do the last few days, do you think we might meet next term?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (17 December 2011):
 Based upon what you've submitted here, I give it an 83 to 86% chance.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2011): He sounds genuine enough to me. Work, coursework and exams have a way of monopolising your time - never mind when you have all three to deal with at once! I don't think he would've bothered giving you false hope about meeting up next term if he had no intention of doing so. I'd let it lie for now and see how things transpire. Perhaps drop him a casual text or two during the holidays (at Christmas and on New Year's Eve, maybe?) and see if/what he replies. Then get in touch at the start of next term if he doesn't do so first.If it does turn out that he isn't feeling it after all though, don't be too crushed. A connection might show promise initially, but it isn't always right for you in the long run. Sooner or later there will of course be one that is :) Good luck and take care x
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