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anonymous
writes:So basically before my boyfriend, I had not looked at a man in a sexual/romantic way for years. I am just not attracted to males, I am borderline repulsed by them really. I am extremely attracted to females, though.I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years, we have been living together for 9 months now and he is seriously the hottest thing on the planet to me.He is not feminine or girly in any way. He is boy-ish and cute rather than ruggedly handsome if that means anything.I just do not understand. I always thought I would end up with a female.Why is it that I find my boyfriend so attractive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2011): Human sexuality isn't black and white! You might not be attracted to males in general, but there's obviously something about this particular one that you can really connect with. Looks, personality, the lot - he just does it for you. You don't have to overthink it, neither do you have to try and define your sexuality. If you're happy in this relationship, if it works for you, then simply enjoy it for what it is. You may feel differently in future, you may not. It's how things are here and now that matters :) Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2011): Maybe you weren't a Lesbian after all. And even then, who you are attracted to is a choice now isn't it? You see and admire and appreciate things in your BF -the qualitites and character, the heart, that surpass the outer shell of a person. That may be what you are in love with.
And not so much the sexual orientation of a person. Isn't that how love should be?
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