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anonymous
writes:i was recently asked to 'take control in the bedroom' and i would love to but i don't get how i can do this. any ideas?and how can i get over my embarrassment as i lack confidence?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2011): when I put this link into google.com the link worked
not sure why it did not work otherwise. So I hope the link works next time you try it.
Spicing up your sex life! - relationship advice - Dear Cupid
www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html
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But first i would try to spice things up. . Allow your hand to languidly slide across his thigh while watching tv. Arch your back and push ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2011): just copy what he does when he's taking the lead. Note what he does that he considers as himself taking the lead, and then next time you do it first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2011): Sounds like your partner is asking you to show more initiative and be more enthusiatic in the bedroom. If this is not you then explain your reluctance to your partner as you cannot force anything.
But if this is something you are willing to try and you really want to take a more active role in the bedroom then maybe some of the following can help you surprise your partner?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html.
Good luck.
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reader, Mugzie69  +, writes (18 December 2011):
 How much control are you interested in taking? Maybe you should explore this at the FetLife website. Just a thought.
Good luck!
Mugzie
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