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male
age
51-59,
*inkpanties2
writes: Hi everyone. Iam a 42 yr old male who likes to wear girls panties an other girls underware an girls clothes. Yes iam a crossdresser. I was wondering what girls or other crossdressers think about the scene. My female cousin use to dress me as little girl when i was very young. Do you think i liked it and that is why i still crossdress. I am not gay. I just love dressing in girls clothes. Please be nice with your answers.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (13 May 2010):
Ok I will be nice! Cross-dressing does not mean you are gay, mentally disturbed or anything too sinister. It is possible childhood experiences influence your adult interests but I am inclined to think not. If you really want to find out why you cross-dress try some specialist counselling for gender-related issues as it may reveal the answer. Transvestites who go down the surgery route are required to have fairly extensive therapy in most countries, so there are plenty of counselling services out there. I am not suggesting you would be having surgery but these counselling services are particularly directed towards gender identity and cross-dressing behaviour. I think what you are doing is pretty much harmless as long as you are open and honest with partners. I don't expect any woman would want to walk in on their boyfriend or husband dressed in their clothing without prior warning. I have a friend who is a cross-dresser and his girlfriend is quite happy with the arrangement although they do fight over who wears what!
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