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writes:i have known this boy at my college for 3 years he always gives me all the signals he likes me so much, eye contact body language perfect! so he asks me out in the 3rd yr i was nervous and scared because of my past experiences and i didnt want to make the same mistake but at the same time he was all i wanted for so long, i said maybe. i didnt think he would ask me twice i dont know whether he knew that i liked him and he just played with my feelings because his friend did have some info, but he seemed so sweet arent they all. ok so he asked me again after giving me many signals hes interested i didnt reply again! then he sent sum1 to protect his ego that he dont like me, after three years of playing games sending hints all hes mate teasing him about it. there was a whole room full of people, i got shy and i wanted to really tell him how i feel but i just dont know what happened. Anyway he didnt even give it a week met this girl off facebook and hes walking around with her, he still looks at me as if hes tryna make me jealous and slow motion outside my classroom. i dont know whether hes tryna prove to me i lost my chance but what do i do how do i handle this situation making him look like an idoit. all my mates said they seen how he was towards every thing under the 'he likes me 110%' signals hes done i dont understand. ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut he's been 'in a relationship with her for a week now all of a sudden i don't know what am i meant to do i know he still wants me because he can't take he's eyes off me even if he is with her. it's like she's a trophy
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reader, OmgDoll  +, writes (14 May 2010):
Don't get upset over him, first things first HE IS A BOY. Boys always protect their pride no matter what. He only sent his friend to tell you that because he didn't want to look like he was running after you. After you shot him down twice, he was probably hurt and confused and making you jealous is his way of getting back at you. He's making you realize that you do have feelings for him after all, and thats what he set out to do. And its obviously working.
Just be carful with your next move. If you want him you're going to have to play him at his own game. Jealousy is a wonderful tool sometimes, but just be really carful, it could backfire! If you notice he is getting jealous, then talk to him before you ask him out maybe? Just make sure you don't hurt anyone in the process. Using someone to get to someone else could lose you a lot of friends. Good Luck!
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