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writes: i ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now we ve always been good together and can never keep our hands off each other but over the past couple of months his started to sort of distance himself he hardly touches or talks to me i love him to bits and i need some advise on how i can get our spark back or should i just give up on our relationship like he has???
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advise i found out what the promblem was last night he told me when he went out clubbing with his mates he slept with another women and she is now expecting his baby =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2010): Maybe its not your fault, he may be stressed with too much work and believes you will understand him backing off as something usually has to give where stress is concerned. There again, all relationships change over time and its just that he is taking you a little fo granted. Best thing is to ask him whats wrong and be prepared for him to either tell you straight, or look at you so vaguely as to wonder what brought that question on!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2010): i actually think you should honestly let it go, although it hurts now it will be more so if later. like they say he just isnst in to you. If you have to try hard to win his heart back its just not worth it! why should you have to make someone love you, you know it wont last, trust me. or (if you love him enuf set him free) and yourself for that matter, am sure you can find someone who will enjoy you for you and dote over you like no other. try it and see!!!!! trust me you wont regret it.
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