Friend acts like he's attracted to me but says he isn't gay

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and well.. lets call him tom... me and tom have been good friends for about 2 years now, best friends even, he knew i was gay cause im open about it but not obviously gay... about a year ago my atraction to him went from friendship to wanting to be his lover, i know that atraction is normal and can be developed between close friends but this is much different to that, i worked up the courage to say to him that i liked him and he replied with.. cool so that all you wanted to say?... to me he seemed to comfortable with it, he is now making alot of eye contact bringing me alone to talk to him to just sit and chat alone, he has even walked into me by "acident" and touched.. areas... where a normal straight guy wouldnt we flirt alot with each other but he still says he isnt gay, bicurious or bisexual. this is where i find my issue i can not stand not being with him and miss him terrible but i cant stand being with him cause its to much to handle and i would want to kiss him right there and then i just find it heartbreaking and frustrating, please someone help me i really would love the advice it would really help me make up my mind what to do. x

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