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writes:Me and my lovely girlfriend have been dating for six years.the problem is that she is too clingy,every now n then i will say once or twice a month i will go to friend braai have something to drink or so,the problem is she normaly send me sms or phones now and then asking when i am i coming home.we have two kids together and plan getting married in couple of months...i dont know what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, Zappa +, writes (13 May 2010):
Zappa is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanx anon,i will surely try it out that rely helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2010): Hello,
Does she have a past where someone has betrayed her? Sometimes people get insecure when someone has hurt them in previous relationships. However, you can't blame the person your with for what the the other person has done.
If she's jealous, and doesn't allow you to have time away, tell her. Let her know you love her, you need some space to get away for the evening. if your both deciding to get married soon, and she's unable to shake these insecure feelings maybe see a counsellor together see if that helps if she's unable to give you breathing space on her own.
Good luck
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