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Should I move on or try and re-kindle our relationship?

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Question - (13 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I was in a relationship over 2 years ago. I was in the relationship on and off for about a year. It may not seem like a long time, but there was something about this girl and I could never get over her.

Around Christmas (December) I told her that I didnt want to talk anymore. For a while she would call or text me about every two weeks just to catch up. She seemed fine with being friends but I couldn't do it as much as I tried.

The only reason we broke up was because she went to school far away. She and I had a few flings than when she came back for the holidays the year before last, we hooked up again. Once she went back she was able to move on really quickly. However i was not. Ive been on and off relationships for the past 2 years and it always seems like no one is good enough.

Just these two past weeks I cannot stop thinking about her, and how much I would love to re-kindle what we once had.

Basically in a nut shell, I need help on deciding if moving on is something I should just do. Or if i should try and contact her.

Thanks,

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A female reader, AwnserGirl United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2010):

AwnserGirl agony aunthello, its AwnserGirl here.

Look, it seems like your in love with this girl but her being far away is stopping you from showing your love.

Even if shes a million miles away, you shoudn't worry, shes still going to be there for you, and your gunna be there for her.

Look deep into your heart and think about her..call he and meet up and see how things go.

AwnserGirl x

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A female reader, Waiting for an angel United States +, writes (13 May 2010):

We're in somewhat a similar situation, but i know for sure i want to rekindle our relationship no matter what it takes we're having a baby together though. If you think its worth it & she still loves you & you love her go for it dont give up. I believe you can fall in love with the same person more than one time even if thins didnt work out the first time why cant it work a second time? I mean a second time around you've learned from previous mistakes so you'll give it your best this time, good luck:)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2010):

Hello,

Contact her who knows what might transpire. You obviously still have feelings for her, and she may want to reconnect and see where it goes.

If you don't contact her then you'll never know.

Good luck

;D

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