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*torm1907
writes:Im going through a tough time atm. My dog died, my grandad died, i split up with 2 bfs in 2 months, my mates are all falling out and im very delicate. The worst thing is that my best mate has a boyfriend who is perfect for her but he is everything i want. He is all the things i dream of. I would never want my best friend to split up with him and i want her to be happy. But i crave him. He used to flirt with me and another friend and his gf is okay with that. He cuddled us and walked us home but saved all the intimate atuff for her. One time down at the park me and him were messing about and my friend went home crying saying he was ignoring her because she fancys him too. He is cuddling her all the time now and not me. Its like im not there. He blanks me or pushes me away. He is my vbest friend ever and i would give up my heart for him. What should i do because i know i cant have him. How should i deal with him pushing me away? I cry myself to sleep every night. And my other friend who fancys him seems to get the wrong idea and im worried she will upset my best mate (his gf). How can i stop her flirting with him? Sorry really long but i cry all the time because of all this . I need some answers .
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reader, Storm1907 +, writes (14 May 2010):
Storm1907 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe guys a really nice guy and i hang out with loadsa other guys.
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reader, arlamai +, writes (14 May 2010):
Ok, I remember going through this, it sucks but here are a few things I did;Stop acting interested in this boy, he is probably loving the attention and you deserve better than to be pushed away. Don't let anyone push you away, you do not deserve it! Talk to some other boys, I am not saying get over your crush but talking to some new boys will do one of two things, either a) show you that there are lots of lovely, single boys out there who will treat you better or b) show your crush that you are independent and don't need him anymore (you may still want him, but he doesn't need to know this ;))You can't stop this other girl flirting with him, and trust me when I say I have gone to some lengths to stop girls flirting with boys i like. It doesn't work :( but there is a silver lining here, this boy has a girlfriend so this other girl is wasting her time anyway!!Why would you want a boyfriend who flirts with other girls behind his girlfriends back? You deserve better :)x
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