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female
age
41-50,
*igtlb
writes: I met this Guy online and after a month of phone call and emails were met in person. Everything went very well. We talked for hours and have kept in contact. Recently when I call him he always have and excuse to get off the phone and tell me he will call me back but he never does. I finally asked him if he wanted to see me again, and he answer yes. But every time I call him the same things happen. I need opinions on whether or not he is interested in me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2010): Hello,Do you know for certain he's not married, or has a gf?It sounds like he's not interested or has met someone else. When you get him on the phone and he says he would like to see you again ask "whens good for you"? See his response if he suddenly has to go again then cut off contact. If he's truly interested he will return you calls. Sure we are all busy, but we can make time. Good luck;D
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female
reader, Plexi +, writes (13 May 2010):
I'm sorry hun but it doesn't sound good to me. Even if he was super busy he would excuse himself, then at least call you back out of politeness to say good night or something. If he was interested he would chase you, he would not let you slip away. Perhaps he is tired of the chatter but if that was the case and he was indeed interested would he not ask you out again? I would not pursue this guy, if he starts pursuing you and you decide that you do like him, don't be too available and let him chase you a bit before you give in.
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female
reader, Laura1318 +, writes (13 May 2010):
He may still be interested in you but it seems like he does not like to engage in long conversations on the phone.
Either he could be busy or he is tired of the long chatter.
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