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*hawn1234
writes:OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9months, we have are good days and bad days, i usually start the fights. ino were only in high school but she flirts every single day. it gets really old quick and i dont know if i should just take it or keep saying sumthing. But i found out she was txting this one guy and she kept asking for rides all the time and wanted to go to the movies, while we were dating. and she always talks about how hott guys are infront of me. and i just wanna cry sumtimes..a dont cry often. so what should i do, please help me out
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Your g/f is cheating behind your back.It looks like she is not committed to you and maybe using you until you have served her purpose or a new and better guy comes into the picture.
Cut your losses and let her go.
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reader, True +, writes (13 May 2010):
Ight... So.... just talk with and tell her that it hurts you when whe does that and if feels like she being taken from you. Tell that your jelous even if your a big macho guy but w/e cuz it's the truth right? and if thing dont go your way in the end then its not something you get involved in anymore because if she straight up doesnt care then she probualy doesnt care.
BUT!!!!!--- the way you describe how she talks about hot guys infront of you is either to get you jelous ... which i doubt but also explains alot .
OR---- it means she is really comfortable with you (which is good)
**keep this in mind**
girls can have guy friends too, but keep and eye on it(but dont start stalking now) :) lol GL
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 This may be a case where she is a flirt and will not stop for anyone at the moment atleast. My concern is if you are always driving and paying for everything she may be using you. I say get out of the relationship because this early on should still be the playful romantic stage not a constant fight, it should never be constant fighting especially with something that never gets better.
You would be better off with someone else instead of feeling terrible while you wait for her to change. Some people just aren't ready to have a commited relationship and I know it will be hard for you but once you leave her and find someone else you will be so much happier.
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