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writes: I love my ex, but our relationship, sadly, can't continue. He has a hard time accepting this, and he's really heartbroken. I'm really worried about him, since he's suffering so much. I'm sad about the break up, of course, but I already accepted this relationship can't be. There was too much drama and jealousy, and no trust from his part, even though we mostly had happy times.I don't know what to do. Today will be the last day we'll see each other. We have no resentments, and we love each other, there's no hatred or anything. So it's all the more difficult to just say goodbye.What can I do about him? It kills me to see him suffering like that!
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (14 May 2010):
 Ok, sorry. Then he is the jealous type and you need to get rid of him. There are some guys who simply care about their gfs and can come of as jealous when they are actually not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): Hello,
I can truly understand why you felt the need to let go of the relationship. When your being accused of things you haven't done it becomes difficult to constantly defend yourself. Nor, should you have to.
Its his own insecurities that made him behave this way. Whether it be past experiences of someone betraying him etc. Still its never good to blame someone for what someone else has done.
Its never easy to say good bye, and I'm sure he's having a tough time dealing with this. Just do the best you can.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): What the hell laetitia? Don't assume things. Fine, so I didn't give much info. How the hell do you know he was just a regular guy and not the jealous type? Do you know him personally? Did you date him?
Look, I gave him NO reason to be jealous, I was loyal like a freaking dog! He was jealous of my past, and assumed things based on that past, he thought I'd cheat on him with anyone, even though I had no previous history of cheating. Most people told me he must've had severe issues for being jealous of something that happened before he even met me and when I was SINGLE and free as a bird! I was no slut, I lost my virginity to him. Yet he constantly called me a slut based on the fact that I'd kissed a few guys just for fun.
The nerve...
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reader, laetitia +, writes (13 May 2010):
sounds like you didn't love him as much as you say you do. If you did, then you would have understood him and tried to not cause him to be jealous, giving that he was not "the jealous" type but just a regular guy who cares about his gf. Why was there so much drama?
Anyway, if you don't care about the relationship then just move on. Some non-contact will help.
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