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writes:I am 14 , and really in love with this guy , he is 16 . I added him on facebook , he was a friend of a friend , and she said he was really sweet and i should get to know him. So i did , but eventually all my friends got involved with him and they all fancied him , including this one girl . He said he loved her and that as soon as he met her he would go out with her. So I , being the jealous type had to meet up with him first , luckily he was best mates with my best friends boyfriend , so me and two other friends went to meet up with him and the other guy , me and him were really close , holding hands and i was leaning on his shoulder. Then we played dares , and i was dared to get in with him , which i did , and then for the rest of that day he said he was in love with me and he didn't think he loved that other girl . So when i got home one of my friends that came with me decided to spread it about that me and this guy got in , of course word got round to the girl he was meant to love and she had a massive strop and then the guy said to me , after telling me he loved me all day and kissing me and holding my hand saying he wasn't going to bother about this other girl, he said , he loved her more then anything and couldn't let her think that , so he said to her it was just a dare and told me to go along with it that there was no feelings involved and that nothing else happened all day . Which was a Big fat lie. but he said to me if ever things didn't work out between him and my friend he would go out with me because he loved me too. Then about a week ago he dumped my friend , and his reason was because she was frigid and wouldn't do anything with him! only kiss :/ . He had been flirting with a few girls and saying to his best mate that he was gonna dump the girl because he wanted to get in with other people and do things , so my best friend told the girl that and she dumped him , but they got back together and the next day he dumped her. I think it was because he didn't like the thought that she dumped him , who knows. but now hes ''in love'' with this other girl , and said he doesn't want a girlfriend after all he said to me . Now hes asking me for a quicky of course i accepted because i love him but he doesn't love me and now I'm really annoyed at myself , and i think hes telling everyone about it too! . I dunno whether to chuck him as mate , because whenever we go out even when he was going out with my friend he would ALWAYS flirt with me! or just to keep him as a mate , but i don't know whether i can do it , because every time i see him this feeling overwhelms me :/Please Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for you advice , i'm pleased to say i have chucked this guy and no longer think about him and now i am happier and feeling much better in myself thank you for your advice it is much appreciated x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 He's using you for sex and doesnt care at all about you, he's a womanizer and plays mind-games. Got back together with this girl just so HE could dump HER. Didnt wanna be with her in the first place because she didnt give him sex... Excuse me but why on earth do you care about this boy?
Don't keep him as a mate. Ignore him and cut off all contact. He "loved" you after one day? No-one is that gullible. He loved the fact that you would do anything for him, and he played along hoping he could have both you AND the other girl, but too bad for him she didn't accept that. You however seemed fine with playing second violin?
Don't ever take another womans trash, hun. This guy will get whats coming for him, you just stay away from his mess.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (13 May 2010):
He's not worth it.Like totally! Have nothing to do with him.Remove him from your friends list.He's not in love with you.He's enjoying the attention he's getting from a lot of girls.You're just gonna be one of his conquests if you give in to do anything with him.You're worth much more than that,come on.You're special,dont cheapen yourself.You're just having a crush on him,you're infatuated.You dont love him,you'll soon realise that.
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