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writes:im 18 years old. i feel so down and depressed, been up and down for a year now. i spend most my life crying stuck in my room. i have no job, eventhough i try everyday to get one and have been failing at them all, im pregnant, and i have a boyfriend who isn't here for me enough, especially now when i need him more than ever. i feel alone, i feel trapped. and who is likely to hire a pregnant girl? my boyfriend has a new job which invloves him working away and im scared he will fall in love with someone else eventhough he says im the only one for him. i have family that support me, but i still feel alone and just crave for my boyfriend to take me out, we spend our nights watching tv, same old routine, im going out of my mind with boredom, i just want to run away from everyone and never come back, i just have no where to go or no money. please give me some advice on what to do
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reader, OmgDoll  +, writes (14 May 2010):
You're not alone. You have family that support you, a boyfriend that is trying to earn as much as he can for you and a baby on the way that will love you from the moment it's born.
Maybe find a new hobby while your boyfriend is at work. If you have any interest in Art or writing start a scrapbook/diary for your new baby, or maybe take up painting? It's proven to relax the mind and it is very rewarding. Focus on something you've always loved and dust it off, start again. Or try something completely new.
Try finding out about your local community center usually has groups for expecting mothers, they can be surprisingly fun and a great way to make new friends that are going through the same things as you.
Talk to your boyfriend and plan one evening a week where ye could try something different that ye have never done before. Let him know how you feel.
Remember there are people around you that love you and you only need to pick up the phone to talk to any of them. Let someone know how you're feeling, getting it off your chest will work wonders I can ashore you.
Try not to worry, just enjoy yourself.
Good Luck!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 My advice to you is:
Be considerate of your bf's job.
Talk to him and explain how you feel without putting any blame on him.
Do you have friends? If so spend time with them.
Spend time with your family.
pamper yourself....like take a bubble bath
keep trying for a job!
Good luck!
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