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age
26-29,
*eskimaCerita
writes:Basically, there's a guy, that's been a jerk, and I don't know what to do!I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, things were going fine and we went out on saturday. On the sunday i txted him to thank him for paying/thank his parents for cooking, and that i'm busy for the next couple of weeks so we wouldnt be able to meet up for a while. He didn't txt me back for three days, which made me nervous cos he usually txts back in three minutes!So, I turned to facebook. I asked him if anything was wrong and he told me he'd lost his phone, which made me feel better. I know he has a really bad phone which usually holds its charge for about a day. So anyway, today I dialled his number by accident, and to my surprise the phone actually rang! I know i shouldn't have been suspicious but I got my friend to call him up, so that the number was unrecognisable. He didn't answer, but a few seconds later, he called her back.So I sent him a txt asking why he told me he'd lost his phone and asking if anything was wrong. He hasn't txted me back and it's clear he's over me, but it really shocked me that he'd tell a straight up lie (he knows I will tolerate most things except being lied to) and I have a strong urge to bitch him out. I know this is probably a bad idea, but I have no idea what else I can do!I hope that made sense! Sorry for a long and rambling question - I'm tired, upset, angry and confused so I can't really think straight. Any help to make sense of the situation would be brilliant! thanks so much- H xx
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reader, mrantarctica  +, writes (14 May 2010):
 Theres the possible scenario :
he got your text, and was upset by it. He didn't feel like talking to you, and there's not much you can say back to your initial text anyway so didn't text back straightaway. He then lost his phone, and you talked on facebook. he then found his phone again, and then your friend gave him a missed call and he called back. So it looked like he had his phone all along.
I sometimes leave my phone lying around somewhere, and if someone texts me - I won't get it for ages because I don't take my phone with me everywhere inside the house, because im not a cellphone slave. Occasionally I'll speak to them (e.g facebook) before i read that text and they'll ask if they got my txt, and I'll say no (truthfully - because getting a text is actually reading it, not whether your phone has received it or not). They'll then proceed to explain what the txt was about. Afterwards, I'd find my phone again, and see that text. But by this stage, there's no need to reply because I've already spoken to the person.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Let it go don't waist your energies on this guy he is not worth it. A decent guy would tell you when he is breaking up with you but I'm assuming that because of his age he hasn't reach his maturity level.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Under the circumstances, it might be best to just forget about him. He sounds like a real jerk. You don't want people like that in your life. Do you?
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