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writes:There is this guy I have been trying to get over because of his past he is a cheater I written many post about him and they all told me the same thing basically for the whole of 2009 we have liked each other and said we didnt for fear of rejection then i found out he called me boring to his friends i was really insulted and felt extremely disrespected for when they are not their he would follow me around and try to hug me. he even admitted to calling me boring cause i would not do anything with him. so for 2010 we are attempting to be friends but he still flirts with me. but i told him the reason I would not date him is because of his cheating ways i told him this when i first found out he liked me in 2008. Did i make a mistake telling him that I liked them back then. because I told him I dont like him anymore but that does not stop him from flirting with me and bothering me. What should I do ignore him or only speak to him when necessary?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): You can't be friends if he doesn't respect you and your space. He sounds like a drama king who doesn't mind jerking you around because he knows he can. If you gets you to do more for him as a result that will suit him just fine, but what about you. What do you want?
I say give yourself time away from him and just say don't call or try to see me for a few weeks. I need time to myself right now. If you have to ignore him to get him to respect that, then do it. Friends do not play with your head or emotions. Time away doing other things you enjoy will give you some perspective on what you really want.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Ignore him and he will soon get bored and move on.
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