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writes:We both 30 and have been married for two years. we have a daughter who I love dearly. during the first year of marriage sex was great, but now my wife is no longer interested in sex, she hate it so much, if she goes in bed, she does not want to be touched,kissed or hold. I have tried to speak her and I ever took to her to a psychologist but to no avail. The problem is my wife does not seem to have respect for me because she does not see this as a problem in our marriage. the question is how long will i hold on not having sex and enjoying it with the woman i love? I have tried a lot but my wife does not want to cooperate, i love her so much but her stubbornness is driving me crazy. I am very patient and I hope things work out for us.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): It is pretty common for some women to lose their sex drive due to hormonal imbalance. It can be treated. I suggest having her see a doctor.
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reader, Kenneth  +, writes (15 March 2010):
Hey join the club it dwindles after a while. Sex is way too over-rated. Do other interesting things with her, trust me, she will be looking forward to great sex afterwards.
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reader, weparley +, writes (15 March 2010):
Have you thought about porn for the void? most guys, this wouldn't be a question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): I feel for you. To be honest I am the female witholding sex from my hubby. I know my reasons so I will tell you and maybe this will be of some help! See my partner never really listens to me. When I complain about things he belittles my problems... I feel like he doesn't feed me emotionally so I don't have any interest in giving ANYTHING to him ...not even sex. Sometimes I feel like he just takes from me... takes time, attention and energy but I don't feel fulfilled. I think that MAYBE (your probs could be different) just try to take her out for dinner or for a weekend and just talk!! Just listen to her...Don't put your views in there....just let her offload and maybe you might get some!! good luck xx
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