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female
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36-40,
*yel
writes:my boyfriend that lives with me used to call me on his lunch break and when he got off from work (after work he goes to his friends house to chill) but now he does not i ask him why he says that he knows thathe will be seeing me when he gets home! but i mean can'yt he even text and say hey, what do u guys think?ps: i am a bit old fashioned i do not text or call a guy i am with until he does it first! how many times should u hear from the guy u are with?
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reader, rambini  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 guys are very different to girls, they don't need to be in touch with ppl/friends 2 hours a day, they don't need to gossip or chat, therefore it is a lot to expect him to ring and text every day, when he lives with you?? you should be pleased that hopefully it means he has settled into his job, and maybe found some friends among his work collegues who he has lunch with. but if it bothers you that much, you should sit down and explain to him that it means a lot to you to know he is thinking of you, and although you understand he gets busy and he sees you in the evening maybe he could just send you one text at lunch time to let you know how is day is going and tht he is thinkin of u. though to be honest i dont understand y he has to text or ring u all the time, he might think why should i always make the first move, y cant she ever ring or text me first, so i think u should sit and talk to him about it. maybe surprise him with a sweet message when he is at work, and let him know u r thinkin of him. good luck
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reader, stupidgrlinluv +, writes (14 March 2010):
Well the same thing was happenin 2 me. My x bf got this job at the begginin of dec. Nd he would call me during lunch nd txt me during he's breaks but after maybe 3 wks he would only txt in march I come to find out he was cheatin on me with some girl from work nd that she was pregnant. I dnt mean for u to think that the same thing is happening 2 u but if I happend 2 me and he didn't go anywhere after work (I know kause I picked him up nd took him 2 work evertday). U should ask him sit down nd have a real serious convo wit him nd get 2 the bottom of it well good luck hope everything works out for u :)
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