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Why is he asking me for money? Is he using me or what?

Tagged as: Breaking up, Long distance, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (14 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2010)
A female Åland Islands age 36-40, *iss williamz writes:

Please i need an urgent answer. My ex and I have been dating for 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. during this time he was in school and i was working so whenever he had any financial need i was there to help him financially. Until the 2nd year i went to school too. so i wasnt able to help him financially. So we kept up with communicating until he started drifting away. but he alwayz talked about how financially he is not ok. Now weve broken up and we are still in contact he still tells me of his problems. And just recently he asked me for money. And i told him i dont have any with me. Now i think hes moved on. Why is he asking me for money. What i dont get was this guy using me or what?

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A female reader, mischieviousangel916 United States +, writes (18 March 2010):

He played you. Don't ever give an ex money. Let him go without.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (14 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou have been conned of your money. It is your hard earned money and you should not give it to him or anyone with a 'sob'tale.

He took advantage of your kindness and love.

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