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*olaroid93
writes:I'm permanently single.. And it's driving me insane... I never get any interest from guys at all unless they're really boring and mundane. Am I aiming too high or something ? Should I settle for uneasy conversation etc? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 I think you should not look for guys, but join clubs, groups etc. that relate to your interest. Reason not to look, is that by following your life passions, you'll run into meet and find guys of like interest to yours.
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reader, Polaroid93 +, writes (15 March 2010):
Polaroid93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionRight well, I'm interested in things like photography music politics books etc and want to do things like travel and have good time... Guys who go for me want to drop out of sixth form uni etc and get jobs there normaly prettty good looking but just don't seem to have much about them and actualy interesting guys never seem to like me back... I'm not shallow and find alternative people more attractive than conventional guys. Recently this guy I like... I'll call him john... Asked me on a date.. We went to see the new alice in wonderland it was good but thank god there was something tht meant there had to be no conversation (the film) because we had nothing to talk about after seeing him again the other day he loosened up a bit but we still didn't have loads to talk about. The thing is it doesn't make him uncomfortable becuase he's just like that and thinks it's normal... Should I settle?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): I think you should pick a boy that you like. And ask him out. i know most girls are afraid to but so are some boys too. Just be confident make friend with the guy, but dont get to pally and just ask him out.
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reader, freddyfred +, writes (14 March 2010):
 well let me put it to you this way the people your dating might be boring becouse of what choise u had u picked the one that looks good and fets what u want but you cant have both its eather looks or brain its hard to get boyh
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reader, GenuineGirl +, writes (14 March 2010):
Nobody ever aims too high, honey. Everyone wants a boyfriend who ticks all the boxes. Everybody can be boring at something, but you can draw them out and make a boring person colourful and fun. Just be yourself and with your genuine self you should get someone who is not only fun but appreciates you for being you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2010):
I agree that we need more information. But don't settle if you're not happy.
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 March 2010):
Why don't you give a little more information. How exciting, or what activities you find are exciting to share with another. How do you see them boring, and how much time to you give them before deciding their boring? I know from meeting girls in the past, I don't come right out and say, hello, I'm not boring, so how about it. So I think a bit more information is needed to properly answer your question.
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