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writes:I am an older gentleman. Raised in a religious family but never made the connection. Over the years, I have known people from all walks of life, but, other things being equal, have felt most comfortable with people who are open-minded about sex. The girls I liked most in high school were girls who liked looking at pictures of naked girls with me. I have been around this country and overseas in the army and have had sex with prostitutes, girlfriends, a couple of strangers, and two wives. I have watched strippers dance, flirt with the customers, and leave with different people on different nights. I am perfectly comfortable with people like that. Prostitutes, bisexual women, topless dancers seem to be people with a possibly interesting job to me. Now I am seeking a new wife and know that I would be most comfortable with someone who is in a sex related job, or has been, or would have been if people hadn't thought it evil or disgusting. I have lived a lie for over 35 years as the husband of two women who thought I was a straight up guy. Why shouldn't I enjoy my life with a "floozie"...as Debra Wenger called prositutes in "Cannery Row"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Do whatever makes you happy and forget the crowd.
I think it's wrong to expect someone to marry a person that does not share their sexual beliefs - be it in favor of chastity, OR in favor of promiscuity.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 If you can love her and accept her, you will not see her imperfections. You do not have to follow the social norms .
Marriage is between two individuals who share the same ideals and what others think is irrelevant.
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reader, Jo1983  +, writes (14 March 2010):
Life too short forget what ppl think and do what makes you happy its ur life.I was an escort and as long as i was working and earned my own money instead of screwing the benefit system i was happy working as a escort it made me feel sexy wanted and gave me a bigger sex drive.You will only regreat it if you dont live the life you want to.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (14 March 2010):
 I never met a "floozie" I didn't like. Go for it if that's what floats your boat.
At your time of life, no one should be telling you how to live. You've earned the right to live as you see fit.
Good luck
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reader, rambini +, writes (14 March 2010):
 hi there, i admire your openess and honesty. you have an open minded approach to life, which has no doubt come about partly through life experience. life is to short to conform to other peoples accepted norms, and it sounds like you've already done your part in that. it is time to find happiness for yourself, in whatever shape or form that comes in. happiness comes from within, and therefore looks/occupation/age don't matter. I hope you manage to find happiness in whatever form you want it. good luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 March 2010):
It's a free country. Do what you want.
Just treat her with love and respect and you'll be fine.
Women are women. All different, no matter what their job.
Good Luck!! xx
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