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writes:I'm 13 and guys and everyone else calls me fat and ugly but most of the time the call me a cow and moo at me down the hallway I would punch them but don't need an 8 write up. These kind of ppl make me so angry they make me crazy and my mother has forced me to go to anger managment. But I don't need some one to tell me I'm angry I know what I am. Also I certainly don't need ppl telling me I'm ugly or fat or a cow. I mean really a cow haow mean could they get. I don't absolutely know if I'm ugly or not you tell me. Reply to this Question
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reader, kaylandra +, writes (14 March 2010):
kaylandra is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thx you for all ur kind words I will try not to use physical communication to deal with things.
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reader, will I ever? +, writes (14 March 2010):
 Everyone who has answered has said basically the same thing so I think you know the answer. How to cope with it is the part you must focus on. Since your maturity level seems to be high (and obviously you can tell that your bullies' seems to be low) I will tell you what I told my own teeneage daughters growing up: "Everyone changes. What you look like now has no effect on how you will look when you're older. The beauty queens in high school usually end up like hags when they are in their 40's, trying to stay tan and thin. What's on the outside doesn't matter as time goes on. So keep your chin up and look to your future and who you want to be once high school is over." Good luck, sweetie.
p.s. I was called ugly as a teenager and now I have all the 20 year old guys calling me hot! lol
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 Don't let people get you down.
Everyone goes through similar experiences as a teenager... being picked on, and feeling awkward.
I would have punched them, but this is definitely NOT the right thing to do.
What makes ME angry... they'd write you up for punching them but the school authorities have done NOTHING about the bullying? You shouldn't punch them, but their words are a lot more hurtful and it makes no sense that they're getting away with it. I say get the names of the people picking on you and go to the school administration about it. Do your parents know this? You need to tell them and these bullies need to be punished. I hate people that do that.
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reader, princessgabby  +, writes (14 March 2010):
No one is ugly!Every one is beutiful in their own way so find yours and show it!Tell your mom whats happening at school thats the right thing to do and ignore the people who are saying those things they only do it to make themselves look better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): i have no idea of how you look physically, however i am positive that they are ugly. Most people judge in the beginning solely on looks...but as you spend time together their personality changes how they appear to you. For example 2 of my sons...the oldest of the 2, is a very good looking boy. Has been since birth. At 18, he has a good build but he could care less about what he has on, his hair, and although extremely intelligent, doesnt have great people skills. He is a good kid but just doesnt think of others much. The younger is tall and slim, but his shoulders and abs are average. He has trouble with acne, he has always had noticable ears. average intelligence. This boy is neat in appearance, caring, thoughtful, witty, funny and the life of the party. Anytime we are anywhere, there is a crowd around him. As people get to know them, the younger one gets more handsome. People talk about how cute he is...but in truth its his inner beauty shoing thru. these people who tease you are ugly and given time it will catch up with them. People of average or below average looks often become much more attractive with age, and nothing helps more than a pleasant personality and a smile. I promise you also at your 10 year class reunion, those who were so beautiful and handsome become very average while the average tend to bloom. Who you are inside, will determine your beauty, your successes and your friendships. Good luck sweetheart, your age is hard. Bullies are cruel and pick on anything. Ht doesnt have to be true. These people ARE bullies. Im sorry you are having to deal with them, but you are the better person. And i would bet you are not a bit ugly. Take care of yourself, be neat and clean, and wear modest attractive clothing. Your day will come. Hugs, mal
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 Without see you in pic, I cannot say anything about beauty or ugliness in you, but with most certainty, I have reason to say that intellectually you possess maturity of 30 at the age of 13...here is your statement, that make me to think like this...'These kind of ppl make me so angry they make me crazy and my mother has forced me to go to anger managment. But I don't need some one to tell me I'm angry I know what I am."
In comparison with you, the people around you, are really immature, and I think, they do not deserve even your anger, which can mean..your disapproval.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 This is bullying, they are doing it because they know its getting a reaction from you. It gives their sad little minds something to do. Does your mom know why your getting angry? Have you told her about the name calling?
I know its hard, but if someone says anything like this then just ignore them and carry on what your doing. If they still continue then you could make a comment, something like "oh thats really mature, did you think of that all by yourself, your so clever?" but say it calmly to them and in front of their friends, it will wind them up.
People who do this are cowards and when it comes down to it, they probably have a lot of negitive issues in their own life.
You dont have to put up with this, your a better person than these idiots.
Beauty is an inner thing and you will find this out one day when your older.
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reader, ElectricSheep +, writes (14 March 2010):
 You are most absolutely NOT ugly!
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