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writes:I am 26 and have been with my partner for 8 years, for the past few years we have often been having anal sex as well, although I was apprehensive about it at first and thought it was a bit wrong I do enjoy it,I have mentioned it to a few friends and only 1 has said that she does it, a woman I work with said it can cause problems if you do it a lot, I have searched the internet but get conflicting awnsers,Is it something I should be worried about?
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reader, vicky83 +, writes (17 March 2010):
vicky83 is verified as being by the original poster of the question We do it a few times a month, my partner is not rough and we use lube.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Folks the muscles everyone keeps claiming will get damaged will actually get quite a work out if you do this right. If you're anally raped, yes they will tear, if the penetration is ROUGH, yes they can do harm. If they are careful and gentle you should be safe. Anal sex 2 to 3 times a month should be FINE...
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reader, pyan  +, writes (14 March 2010):
hi
i am not sure but my wife and i tried it for the first time some 20 years ago. we have done it most months since then and she as never had any issues, but it think the woman need to like it and be at easy with it. how often do you do it
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reader, veronika +, writes (14 March 2010):
 I'm going to be blunt here, but no matter how pleasurable anal sex can be for some people - things are just not meant to be inserted up that orifice of your body, preferable never. Biologically, it doesn't make sense to do it.It is true that if you do it too often then you can damage the anus. Have you heard of rectal (or anal) prolapses? Having anal sex (or rather, receiving anal sex) can be a cause for rectal prolapses, where the rectal wall literally protrudes through the anus.Also, unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't exactly go back to "normal size" after sex (at least after a while), so if you have anal sex often enough then it can stretch you out. However, I'm not 100 per cent anti anal sex. I've tried it. But just don't do it too often.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (14 March 2010):
 alot of people in this world do anal sex gay men for example and as far as i know its perfectly safe.however it could loosen the muscles but i dont think you can do any damage
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2010):
If you do it too often, you can damage the muscles. So be aware of that,
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