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*rinksontherun
writes:Ahhhh. Ok, so last night my best guy friend was having a huge party, after we both had a lot to drink we started dancing. We went from one dance party to another in separate rooms. When we got to the second he kissed me. HE initiated it, but I definitely went a long with it. The kiss was amazing.We went out for a bit more than a year ago and broke up because we just worked better as best friends. We were best friends before we went out and stayed best friends after we broke up. Then we go and do something like this! I feel like there has always been this built up sexual tension between us but who knows. What on earth did I get myself into??? I don't want things to be awkward the next time I see him :(What should I do to avoid breaking apart our friendship???
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reader, Wyinter +, writes (15 March 2010):
My friend and I were bf for 15yrs and I wish that we had never went that route. This was the one person that I could get the best advise from about men he would never steer me in the wrong direction or anything just straight up but now it just seems strange and we dont even talk like we use to. I called him to get some advise about this guy I started dating and he said why are u asking me I call u later and later happen about a month later so we went from bf to nothing I wish I could take that day back..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): It's going to be fine. You were both very intoxicated so it just happened out of lack of inhibition. You don't have to feel awkward or guilty for going that far because you both showed the sexual feelings you have for each other when you were at your most vulnerable states. If you want to only remain friends and nothing more, just try to be as sober as possible around each other at all times, and that type of temptation won't happen again, unless you allow it to when you're completely sober.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 It is not easy for a boy and a girl to be best friends without feeling the sexual tensions between them.
Can they be friends only ?
We have heard that sex may change the equation and the friendship will not be the same anymore.
That is the line you should not cross if you want to maintain your friendship at the present level.
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reader, anysecondnow  +, writes (15 March 2010):
It really isn't a big deal. This kind of stuff happens all the time. Roll with it, act like nothing happened. Laugh it off.
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