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*ndrewe235
writes:I lied to my ex a month ago that's why we broke up we decided to be friends hung out a few time at first Just friend. We made a few drunken mistakes here and there and fooled around every time she get drunk she tells me I love you and trust to get me to say it to her well latly this week I've been staying with her to cuddle but she kept pointing out the were just friends.she went through my text and saw a text to one of my ladie friends and mis interpeted what it said and fliped out after I explained we were talking aboutshe was ok. We've been kissing no big but thursday I went over a watched a movie with her and friends I started drinking and we started making out ended up having sex and cuddeling the rest of the night next day same thing but she's been calling me sweetie agine and once agine today I hung out with her and we ended up doing it agine I was falling in love with this girl I have strong filling for her still we've been spending alot of time with each other aging she will text me asking me to come over she missed my butt stuff like that. Are we just friends does she truelly live me and does she want me back and if so should we get back together
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): To be honest, it's very difficult to say whether or not someone truely loves you if the times you are around each other are mostly when one or the other is drinking. The interaction can be completely different than when you're sober and having sex or making out.. you might not have even been doing those things if she was sober. So far, you're just having a friends with benefits relationship, but by having sex with her, she must be under the influence that you're supposed to be with just her, going by her reaction to the text message. Meanwhile, if she hasn't clearly stated that you're her bf, then she could be doing what she wants with other guys, which wouldn't be fair to you, if you can't even say certain things to other girls. You'll have to have a serious talk with her and ask her if she wants a FWB relationship, which is what she seems to be giving you now, or an all out love relationship, where sex and making out aren't the main reason you're together, but more because you really do love each other and want to be together.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 ok they say the truth about feelings come out when you get drunk but you need to be 100% sure why not tell her how you feel towards her and ask if there is any chance she would consider getting back together if she says no then you really need to move on so id say distance yourself from her as friends for a while just until you have both had time to get over one another and then become friends because if you dont this will keep happening and yourl never be able to move forward
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2010):
You need to talk to her. There is no point in doing all this unless she open up to you. You don't want to end up being strung along. I think you should talk to her again. If she still just wants to be friends, then it would be better for you to move on entirely so you don't get hurt.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (14 March 2010):
No!! You are both fooling around the damage has been done. It is time to move on. Had either of you taken this action you would not of ended up 'hanging out'
Carry on and it will end up with one of you being 'hurt' that could be you?
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (14 March 2010):
 Question: Your first statement - "I lied to my ex a month ago that's why we broke up." What was the nature of the lie? I'll get back to you if you are interested but I need more information to give you an informed answer to your end question.
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