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writes:I really just need someone to talk to...but heres my question! its spring break and ive stayed home from the beach for a couple days cause ive become sick! My boyfriend who i thought would come over and take care of me decided hey im gonna go to the beach WITHOUT her while shes at home by herself sick....it seems like every spring break this sh*t gets pulled on me and me the idiot girlfriend stays at home while he goes out! I just dont know what to do anymore im tired this how should i go about talking to him about this!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): come right out and say it he might still be young but if he really likes you he would stay with you when your sick so if he does it again dump him hes not worth it!
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 his thinking about himself being young and a guy all they really think about is going out and having fun so the fact that your ill his thinking he has the chance to get out there rather than staying with you if you want him to stay with you, you need to ask him because he probably doesnt think he is going anything wrong
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2010):
He's still a young guy. He won't be nearly ready enough to settle down. And let's be fair, it's not his fault you're ill. I'd suggest that you gently tell him you're upset he didn't stay with. Sometimes men need a gentle reminder that they are actually needed elsewhere. But remember that he is a young guy, and like 99% of young guys and young women, he will be after fun all the time.
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reader, LeTigre  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 While it seems understandable on his part for him to seize the opportunity and go out, but that is unfair to you as well. Confront him about it for sure and just talk to him about how you feel, tell him everything you posted in your question here and what you would like him to do. Maybe he's just not the right guy for you if he continues to neglect you and run away even not during spring break.
Good luck.
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