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Why do I feel so irrationally heartbroken when not with my boyfriend?

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Question - (14 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *oGreen126 writes:

Dear Aunties, I have yet another question:

I'm very much in love with my boyfriend. I was curious as to why I always feel so irrationally heartbroken when he goes back to his house. I know I miss him, but it's a ripping feeling in my chest and sometimes I end up crying. Why do I have such a reaction?

Greatly appreciative,

--GG

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (23 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntIt could be some childhood trauma that you have experienced about losing someone very dear in your life. This is only an educated guess.

You may need to see a therapist .

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A female reader, GoGreen126 United States +, writes (23 March 2010):

GoGreen126 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

My bf is 15, I'm 16.

We are not having sex--we aren't ready. As hard a commitment as it is, I believe sex is reserved for marriage, and my bf is very supportive of that.

We live about 15 minutes apart and go to the same school.

Because of all this, the pain seems even less justified. I feel... Pathetic? No, I guess it's like pampered and spoiled, etc

Thanks so much for your offer of help,

--GG

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (17 March 2010):

Auntie E agony auntDear GG: I have some questions before I can offer my opinion:

How old is your boyfriend?

Are you having sex with him?

How far away does he live?

Do you go to the same school?

Let me know - I'll see if I can help.

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