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writes:Is it possible for an alpha male man with a super high testosterone amd charged up high sex drive to be in a committed loyal relationship for a long time? Or are they not capable of being faithful?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Some people cheat and some don't. All the other factors are just excuses that get used to justify bad behavior.
I've seen cheaters and faithful people in every category. Men, women, younger, older, passive, aggressive, pretty, ugly, rich, poor, etc.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (15 March 2010):
 As a man who was recently in a three year long relationship with a woman that couldn't stand to be sexual with me more than about once or twice a month, I can say that there was more than a little tension / frustration about sex, but I never once entertained the idea of cheating on her. Never. There were many other attractive women around, but only one woman I loved.
A cheater will cheat when the opportunity presents itself, whether or not he's getting enough at home. An honest man will be honest, whether or not he's satisfied at home.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 I think with those conditions , most of them would tend to stray and only those with high moral and religious backgrounds would remain faithful.
Girls would be throwing themselves at their feet and with all those money and power, anyone would be tempted to stray.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (15 March 2010):
Yes, and there is ZERO relationship to a high sex drive and keeping it in your pants when the other person is not your partner.
Any man that uses this as an excuse needs to be more creative.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the great responses.. I guess I was thinking a man that sexually charged would be so kinky that it would be hard for one women to please him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): I think the type of man and the level of his sex drive are irrelevent factors here. Any man or woman can cheat, even if he or she has a very low sex drive. I think you are being a bit stereotypical and judgmental to pass judgement on someone on the grounds of their gender, confidence and sex drive.
Obviously as a highly sexed guy he could more easily get sexually frustrated (that is a given) but that doesn't necessarily mean he is any more likely to be unfaithful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): As a high sex drive alpha male with high levels of testosterone, I can concur with Caringguy's response. I have been faithful to my wife for 10 years and counting. There was once, when she and I together decided to invite another female to join us, and I couldn't maintain an erection with the other woman because she wasn't the woman I love!
Before anyone comments on that being contradictory to the alpha high sex drive type, bear in mind that generally speaking, I have two or more orgasms a day. If she's not in the mood, I'll go take care of it myself. It's not a scheduled thing, that's just on average (meaning some days less, some more, it all averages out over time) that's about how often I feel the need.
I have a terribly powerful emotional bond to my wife, and it helps that I think she's sexy as hell. Her drive is not nearly as high as mine, and this has caused significant friction between us from time to time, but never has it caused me to cheat.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 March 2010):
Perfectly. Just because he has a high testosterone level, and just because he has a lot of hormones, doesn't mean he can't control them. It depends whether he loves a woman or not.
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