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writes:About a month or so ago I got out of a bad relationship, it was turning into a controlling one and I didn't realise until I was out. At the same time it was ending, I started speaking to this guy. After a week I knew he was something special. He allowed me to complain for hours on end and he'd still call me 'perfect' and 'amazing' by the end of it. We've been talking non-stop since. I trust him more than anyone, which takes a lot for me to do because of my history with depression and anxiety. He's said all the feelings are returned. Though I've never told him my feelings for him, I'm pretty sure he has them with the things he says.I've never had so much in common with somebody before. I can honestly say I could talk to him about anything and know he wouldn't judge me and he's stand by me. I've never felt anything so strong for somebody before. Call it infatuation or love, but I can see a life with him. The only problem is I'm moving countries in 4/5 months. I've expressed how much I'm worrying about leaving to him and he's told me to go and see what it's like. If I find I'm missing home too much I can come back. With everything falling apart he's my one constant in life now. I can barely go a day without talking to him, and when I do I find myself going crazy. So what do I do? Move and chance losing him or stay and try something? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2010):
It is worth the move. You will resent it if you don't move and in the future this doesn't work out. Much better to move countries and see where that leads.
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