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writes: Me and my girlfriend, both 15, are always talking but we can never figure out what to talk about. We always end up saying so, but it gets boring after a while. We are both quiet people but I have little to none social skills. Any ideas what I can do to make it where we can talk about more things or to make it where I have more social skills to actually think of things to say? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Kenj +, writes (15 March 2010):
Sorry to say but without communication its not going to last.
There are loads of things to talk about. Her, You, Hobbies, Pets & Animals, TV & Movies, Weather, Future Plans & Ambition, Travel & Holidays, Work / School, Education, Exams, History, Culture, Art to name a few subjects.
You dont have to be talking all the time, some silence is good. Get a good balance of talking, listening and quiet time.
Good luck!
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