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I can't seem to get over him. What can I do?

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Question - (14 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I really like this guy. He's a really close friend of mine, we talk all the time. We text every weekday and usually at like 9 for a few hours and then we both go to bed. Loads of girls fancy him, he could get anyone he wanted too. He always tells me that if he fancied someone he would ask her out and he claims not to fancy anyone at all. One weekend we got really friendly like best friends, so i thought, well maybe he does like me. So i told him i liked him and being the sweet gorgeous guy he is, he kept saying aww i think its cute dont worry...etc. The next day at school i thought it was going to be awkward so i said to him my feelings have gone since i told you (biggest lie ever). So he thinks we are good friends but i really want to be with him. I only have half a year left to get closer to him because next year we will be in different classes and lots of girls really like him, but i dont know how to get close to him. I have been out with lots of amazing guys but then i always break up with them because i always start thinking about him and thinking what if he wants to ask me out but he can't . Does anyone have any suggestions of what i could do??

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A female reader, src. United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2010):

src. agony auntTell him that you like him, if you dont then someone esle might get him instead of you, its always good to be honest and if your such good mates he will understand. If you are with another boy dont split up with them because you think he might ask you out, you might get to like the boy your with more than you like the boy your liking now.

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2010):

kayla20 agony auntyou have explained to him how you feel but he didnt give you the response you wanted at the time therefore you told him you was joking around.if he really liked you in that way then he would have told you how he felt when you told him i think you need to try and move forward and accept that he only sees you as a close friend

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010):

just talk to him and be upfront about how you feel before someone else takes him

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