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writes:i have had sex with my boyfriend and im getting the morning after pill problem is im grounded so i have to tell my mum, but im really unsure what to say can anyone give me some idea's? would be a big helpthanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine +, writes (15 March 2010):
 * correction, 72 hours, but the longer you wait, the more risk that it won't work and you may get pregnant.
The doctors and nurses need to see you, they won't be comfortable giving it to your boyfriend. Call the doctors or the clinic and explain the situation your in. They understand, they are used to dealing with teenagers.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (15 March 2010):
Contact the NHS.... Your boyfriend can also buy the pill at the chemist, it costs £25. Phone your doctor or local family planning quickly, and ask for an appointment. Tell your mother you feel sick and are going to see the doctor. You can refuse to let her come in and see the doctor with you, if you are over 12. They will keep this all confidential for you.
Your grounded, but that dosen't mean your not allowed to go and see a doctor. I bet your feeling very queasy now, with all that worry, stress and anxiety.. You sure look pale to me. RUN, DON'T WALK.. YOU HAVE NO CHOICE.
NHS... http://www.nhs.uk/Pages/HomePage.aspx
Type in your postcode to find the location of your nearest family planning clinic. Contraception is available free, and emergency contraception (taken within 48 hours) can help prevent pregnancy if you have unprotected sex.
*PS: The best thing is too tell your mother why you need to see the doctor straight away. Mum's can shock and be very helpful with these things.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (15 March 2010):
Cant you tell your boyfriend to buy it and bring it to you at your house? You just pretend to take out the trash and he slips it to you and leaves. Or he gives your best female friend to deliver it to you. Or wait till your mother leaves the house then slip out. Or pretend you want to go to the library to check out courses available and ask your mother to go with you if she likes. Maybe she will just let you go on your own or while there you can give her the slip for a few minutes. Endless ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): could you not get one of your friends to get a morning after pill for you????? or even your boyfriend???
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): I think that asking her for the MAP may be ALOT easier than telling her she wil be a grandma. I am not sure how understanding your mom is?? Do you have a friend that can pick it up for you and just drop it off ...she doesn't have to linger if you're grounded. Remember that the sooner you take the pill the more effective it is! After 72 hours you're just wasting your time. Act fast!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010):
Break out of the house if you have to. Worry about the excuse later. Just GET OUT AND GET THAT PILL RIGHT NOW. The next 20 years of your life are on the line.
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